Im really attracted to my aunt, im not sure how will she respond if i flirts with her.
2006-10-02 15:13:52 · 26 answers · asked by Cat Commander 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
there're preferences for all.
young ones are energetic, playful and full of tricks. mature men are caring, experienced and emotionally fulfilling.
you wont know till you find out? afterall being your aunt and an elder, guess she'll tell you off and you get to learnt something along the way. nothing is free, probably you get an earful but being naive and ignorant, its not your fault...lol.
she may take advantage and play along till it reached limit?
try it, you wont know you find out?
2006-10-04 18:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
*smacks Coffee upside the left ear*
Oh good gawd Coffee ... what's up with young men now-a-days? A mature woman can't even go into Yahoo Chat w/o being attacked like sharks on a feeding frenzy!! The better question would be ... "Why do young men go after mature women, instead of getting together with women their own age?"
In response to your question ... and I've seen it posted a zillion times ... is no, not too many. There are exceptions ... some older women will go for a younger man, but, it's not a life partner she's seeking ... it's just for a bit of fun. Sad, but true.
I think if a mature women were to try to date a much younger man ... she's be fightin' the urge all evening, to take him to the park, then maybe for an ice-cream cone.... pmsl ... sorry, couldn't resist!
2006-10-02 22:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Carol♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not 50 but I would say Not the Normal ones.
If this is your aunt and u did anything---that is incest??? I do not think she would like u very much to even imply that she is worse than a "flewsy".
I do not think this person is a working woman in the manner that you are thinking. What would your Mother think if she knew your intentions.
This sounds like your fantacizing and your attraction is trying to go out of control.
Get a grip--then again do not....but do look for a girl near your age that can not be found at a family reunion! For your sake, move on with your life!
If u are really that down on your luck, find a hooker!
2006-10-02 22:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by guardianofdoves 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your Aunt isnt there a law againest that.....and I am 44 and I cant say I would ever date a 20 yr old......they are like teenagers to me...its a age thing I guess.Plus I dont have the time to train a young man lol
2006-10-02 22:17:48 · answer #4 · answered by luckiestarrr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think older men fantasize about younger women, but the reverse isn't usually true. But to older women (I'm 45) younger men seem too much like sons or something. They seem like someone to nurture. Romantic feelings would just feel...wrong.
2006-10-02 22:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by makingthisup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh...You must be from the South East. Flori-duh would be my guess. This is the birth place of the multi-purpose relatives concept. As soon as you cross the border, you hear the Deliverance Theme (Dueling Banjos) start to play in the background. I had a sinking feeling in my stomach as soon as I got to my new apartment after moving here from NYC. We aren't used to that kind of behavior. Your AUNT!?!?!?!?! You're a disgusting little piece of s'hit!
2006-10-02 22:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably laugh at you. It is sick to try and start a relationship with your aunt.
If you like older women go to the mall and flirt their. Who knows you may get lucky and find what you want. Another good place is a grocery store or a bar but, you will have to get a little older for the bar scene.
2006-10-02 22:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it...she may find it sweet in a childlike way (as if you were a kid with a crush, because basically you are)...not to mention she's family...if she's a blood aunt then it'd be like doing it with one of your parents...
I'm 41 and having the 20-somethings come on to me isn't a turnon at all...the idea of fooling around with someone young enough to be my kid is a complete turnoff...just as it's always been a turnoff to think of fooling around with someone old enough to be my parent...
but then...some middle aged and up chicks dig the real young guys...just as some middle aged and up dudes dig the real young chicks...
2006-10-02 22:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have asked two separate questions
1. women do fantasize about younger men, they are young good looking, healthy...but mostly shallow...give me a mature man every time!
2. your old aunt????what are you thinking??? keep it up and you will mess up your family...it's a no win situation.
2006-10-02 22:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by k saint marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never seen middle aged women ogling at younger men, but I've seen dirty old men ogling at younger women. So your situation's pretty unique!
2006-10-02 23:48:05 · answer #10 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋