2006-10-02 15:08:45 · 12 answers · asked by JMan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
JMan:
Your mate is precious, and has trusted you to love and protect her, and cherish her more delicate emotions. By turning on her, even verbally, you have violated a sacred trust and the damage can be extensive. Not irreparable, but you must be patient.
Have you ever observed the behavior of a pet after they have been injured by an owner? It may be weeks, or years, or perhaps never, before the old relationship is reestablished.
The first requirement is a quality decision to protect her from harm and treat her with kindness for the balance of your lives.
If you really have made that decision, it will show in your thoughts, words and deeds, and slowly, but surely, you will win her back. Now, this is far different than the little chirps of apologies and a peck on the cheek. This is that soul decision
to reignite the great love that brought you together to begin with.
This spat may well turn out to be catalyst that allows you to rediscover each other as soul mates.
I think your question is heartfelt, and I hope I have provided some insight that you may find useful. I do wish you well!
2006-10-02 15:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by The Heart Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I dont know the content of the conversation or who initiated it I would start off by giving her some space. Its always a good idea to cool down then somehow start talking again. Apologize for anything that may have hurt her feelings in one way or the other. Dont just brush whatever happened under the rug. You need to talk again on neutral ground, remembering what happened to put you in the dog house the first time and not repeating it. She will come around. (Some flowers wouldnt hurt either!)
2006-10-02 15:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much to go on here , but I can say once a woman is deeply hurt ...it is hard to get back in. words are harder to take than a punch! Just tell her you re-thought the whole thing and when you looked deep into your heart you know it was not how you felt?
2006-10-02 15:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you told her. If you told her she was a horrible person and made her cry then you deserve to stay your asss in the DOGG HOUSE. I think you need to explain this question a little more in detal? Or is it that im being nosey. However...be nice!!
2006-10-02 19:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My canines is familiar with my sons call. I ask her to discover Oskar and she or he runs to him. this is possibly because of the fact he's basically a baby and that i'm continuously asserting his call, and have been at homestead most of the day so she's listening to me call his call plenty :)
2016-10-18 09:34:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize and let her know you were wrong. Tell her what you learned from this and don't do it again. That's the proof of your sincerity
2006-10-02 15:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a few days and do something really special for her. If you do it know, it will only piss her off even more
2006-10-02 15:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her flowers and a diamond ring.
2006-10-02 15:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not argue with her at all. Just be really really sweet and bite your tongue if she gets mad.
2006-10-02 15:56:57 · answer #9 · answered by michelle123ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AND the LIST goes onnnnnnn...
2006-10-02 15:10:54 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly_kisses81501 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋