it has been 2 weeks that ive been with my boyfriend. and my parents dont kno it because im not supposed to have one. but i feel REALLY feel guilty going behind their backs, but they think that im going to end up pregnant like my 2 older sisters... how do i prove them wrong? and how can i talk to them about my bf?
2006-10-02 14:57:18 · 8 answers · asked by singing soul 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to them honestly. Tell them that you understand their fears but you wouldn't be so silly to end up like your sisters. You want a boyfriend but you also want an education, a job and a home before you ever consider having children.
2006-10-02 14:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down with them and tell them that you have met this boy who is now your boyfriend and let them know how important he is to you and how you don't plan on getting pregnant like your sisters did because you know you are not ready to have a kid right now and think other things such as school are much more important to you at the moment. good luck!
2006-10-02 22:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by la_reina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you would never make that mistake. This guy really likes you and you guys are responsible.Tell them that ur sisters are bad examples and you've learned from them. Your ready- and you dont want to rebel against them- but you know whats right and wrong, and are ready for a boyfreind!
2006-10-02 22:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by simi d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't disrespect your parents wishes. One day you'll understand. You have a lot of time left to worry about relationships. Is a relationship really THAT necessary right now for you? Please consider thinking this through. I know it's difficult but your young. 10-15 years from now you'll look back at this and just laugh.
2006-10-02 22:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by stpolycarp77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can prove them wrong by getting your bf to impress them somehow
when you tell your parents about this, tell them to listen with carefully, and express your feelings without hesitation.
2006-10-02 22:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring up the topic of boyfriends at dinner and just spring it on them...
2006-10-02 21:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would depend on what age you are,if your under 14 then even i would say your to young ,better to tell then have someone see you and tell them
2006-10-02 22:01:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, tell them just say u'll tell be careful.
2006-10-02 22:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by soccer kisses!!!!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋