2006-10-02 14:54:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Start by saying Hi. Introduce yourself. Inaction is worse than trying and failing....
2006-10-02 14:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mona, it's funny, I have or possibly had that same problem. I say had because I try to keep the feelings out. Is he single? If so, I say do something about it before it's too late. My situation was a complicated one; if yours is not complicated, you can just tell him and hope for the best. Why go through life wondering what if? Or you can settle for lifelong friendship which I wish I could've done in my situation but couldn't do because of the circumstances. It was interupting my life; if your like that then you should take some sort of action.
2006-10-02 15:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by Aliayh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read carefully...you do not 'love' him...how can you love someone you do not know? He could be a horrible person or an awful match for you...you may feel some attraction and have spent 2 yrs fantasizing about him, and who you think he is...you've likely made him something in your head that he can never live up to...
BUT why not speak to him and find out? Better to risk rejection, than live with regret (of not having tried)...what's stopping you?
2006-10-02 14:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you see him again and he look at you, smile and say "hi! "good morning",or just simply smile. Keep smiling all the time you see him. Make an eye contact. Or pretend you bump into him and say "excuse me" and smile . Just do whatever it takes to get his attention. I'm pretty sure he sees you too. He just don't want to do the first move to say "Hi" because most women will sometimes take it differently and ignore men. Talk to him like you're asking for direction or something, or say, "excuse me do you have the time?" then smile.
2006-10-02 15:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, first tell him something like "Hello, i have seen you every morning for the last two years, and was wondering what your name is." Depending on if he puts you at ease, ask what he does for a living, does he have a family etc.. let the conversation evolve naturally. And keep in mind, you have likely enjoyed a fantasy version of him.... he may be completely different.
2006-10-02 15:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by kljj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you must introduce yourself and show that you are interested in him.I wouldn't come right out and tell him you LOVE him right away as that WILL scare him off.Invite him to a movie,or dinner and get to know him.Take it slow and see how he feels about you too.This way you won't set yourself up for a big let down,if the feeling is not mutual.Good Luck
2006-10-02 15:02:12 · answer #6 · answered by redjewel52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep going because maybe he does not notice you. How can you love someone you don't even know. Maybe you like things about this person, but love them, no. I always tell females to kind of make casual conversation and never go after him and appear desperate(or like a psycho stalker). You maybe could even flirt but don't take it to far, and if he does ask don't be so quick to say yes, make it seem as if you are somewhat reluctant.
2006-10-02 15:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Miss T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a long time to be watching from a distance. He's ignoring you or you need to make a move. Invite him to coffee . Break the ice, after one year it's called stalking.But seriously talk to the man or move on. I've wasted so many years of my life waiting on one man , now I see him I don't think I want him now.
2006-10-02 15:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by dehba t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear just start by saying good morning or greetings of other nature, with a smile,say some thing of weather and pretty sure in few days he would respond and than try to get him into conversation of his interest, wish u good luck
2006-10-02 15:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by rammy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you possibly love someone you have never spoken to? This is mere infatuation. You may argue with me, but I am right. There is no way to love someone unless you get to know the person inside. You can lust after someone and you can have infatuation for someone - but love? No way.
2006-10-02 14:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋