Noticed on these boards that as soon as a man cheats women dive on these boards and tell them to get rid and that he is scum.....but i will guarentee that at least 70% of these women ,who tell other people to get rid, won't do that themselves if their boyfriends/husbands done it to them.Why ! cause its hard to do it when it comes to the crunch its easier to forgive and save all the heartache......Personally i fell it is worse for a women to cheat than a man cause women can get pregnant and they will claim the baby is their partners even though is isn't.....which is deplorable....What r u feelings on this............
P.S i am not trying to pick a fight or be macho just asking a civilized and valid question
2006-10-02 14:54:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My wife cheated on me,i took her back why easier plus had daughter to think about not caused i loved her in fact lost respect for her but as i say it was the easier option,we had another child shortly later afterwards (she is mine well i say she is but too late now) then she goes and cheats on me again...thank goodness divorce.....you may say i was a lousy husband but i wasn't i worked every hour god sent , never harmed her and she leaves twice for who.....lazy layabouts and acolhlics and wife beaters because that was the environment she grew up in.................so i know it is easier to forgive and to get rid
2006-10-02 15:13:57 · update #1
Women luv cheaters & bad guys until they're getting pummelled or being cheated on themselves.
I feel life makes a complete 360 & one day we'll pay sorely for all the wrong we do.
CT
2006-10-03 01:26:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a valid point. But everyone's first instinct is to act out in anger, kick him out, call it quits. Of course, if the love is true, anything is possible. But then again, if the love is true, why did cheating occur? I think infidelity signifies a deeper problem, and unless the problem is fixed, forgiveness is just a quick fix.
Most people who cheat, will cheat again. Women cheat too, but they are usually more sly about it, I think. And if they end up pregnant because of an affair then they have just set the course for a life of lies, or a life of repentance and change. Either way, cheating stinks.
2006-10-02 22:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by simone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's always easier for anyone to give advice that's hard for them to take for themselves. However, I think if your mate cheats on you, there's a good chance he or she will do it again and that this is an indication of a characterological defect by that person. I kind of feel that guys also don't like their woman to cheat on them and would become just as upset as a woman would under the same circumstances.
2006-10-02 22:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by heyrobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about when a guy cheats and has another baby with a woman and tries to lie about having the baby with his wife??
cheating is emotionally damaging to men and women..
I always say put closure on your relationship before you dive into the next one.
2006-10-02 22:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by sissybombay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally look at it as a matter of trust and respect. If you cannot trust a guy to be faithful to you, why would you want to be with him? And I look at cheating as a sign of disrespect. If someone has the intent of cheating, they should get out of the relationship. Sure it would be hard to break up with a guy who had cheated on me, but I would do it out of my own self respect and to prevent myself from another heartbreak.
2006-10-02 22:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not Trust a Cheater! So many women hate cheaters, probably because the percentage of women that were cheated on is up there.
2006-10-02 23:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater.I have seen men go crazy when their wives started cheating too though.I dont know why a woman would date a cheater they will just cheat on them.
2006-10-02 22:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by luckiestarrr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the baby thing is pretty stupid. A guy can get another woman pregnant, and then 15 years later come back and claim back child support and the child claims inheritance, same dam thing.to a woman. There goes her, and her childrens financial security. what if the guy has several babies out there???????? What about disease? same thing doesn't matter what sex you are.
2006-10-02 22:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by jassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've dumped cheaters before because, they don't respect me enough to stay faithful.
One guy I was sure was cheating, followed him one afternoon and found him at his ex girlfriend's place ... I dumped him on the spot.
I can understand your question and I'm not having a go at you but, when it comes to me, if they can't respect me enough to be faithful to me, then I'm not going them any of my attention.
2006-10-02 21:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think ur right it can go both ways. My ex did it to me with a 17 teen year old girl and it hurts when u love them.It hurts guys too so its the same on both ends.
2006-10-02 23:41:45 · answer #10 · answered by darkpirateprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋