ok, so i am a girl and i think i might be bi. The problem is I don't know any bi or lez girls to try and expiriment on. Is there any other way to figure this out? I have been thinking this for a pretty long and I really wanna know. What do you guys think?
2006-10-02 14:45:10 · 7 answers · asked by Ella 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Definitely try it - keep an open mind and you never know who could step into your life. Sometimes it just kinda happens...ohhh memories...
2006-10-02 15:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Nehyers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chick and Ariel said it all perfectly.
think about it while you're at work/school. which do you look at more often? Women or men? hard bods or nice boobs?
or both pretty much evenly?
Personally i look at girls more than guys... but i still like guys... i have to ;) i'm engaged to one <3.
Hope you can figure this out, but remember- you dont need to know which orientation you are until you are waaayyy past your junior (at least) year in high school. anything before that you're just 1)curious 2)trying to get attention or 3) trying to be popular with a particular person/group of people so you'll do whatever it takes.
Hope you figure it out!
bye bye
2006-10-02 22:49:34 · answer #2 · answered by Getoutalive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I figured out I was a lez before I ever had sex with a women. How did I know? Because I couldnt get off with my husband without fantasizing about women! Isnt that a mess?
So yeah, when you service yourself, if you can have a massive orgasm just from thinking about sex with a chic, your probley bi at least.
2006-10-02 21:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: You can think you are but you will never know for sure.
Long answer: Read a lot and research up on lesbian women and bisexuality. That will take you pretty far, but in the end, who you are is based on what you do, not what you read.
2006-10-03 10:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that some people have fantasies that are just that...fantasy. I think it's pretty hard to determine your true orientation until you have experienced it at some level. What about cyber or phone? I'm assuming you are old enough to do this legally, right?
2006-10-02 21:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question isn't whether you are or not, you need to do what your instinct tells you to do. If you are you should know and if you are having strong urges towards both sexes than chances are you are bi
2006-10-02 23:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by maddog1968 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! I love Arielsalom's answer!! That's it exactly -- after all, straight people fantasize about what they will do and with whom they will do it long before they actually do it.
So...
When the light goes out, do you see yourself with:
Brad?
Angelina?
Or both?
: )
2006-10-02 21:58:34 · answer #7 · answered by Chickyn in a Handbasket 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋