any suggestions help
2006-10-02 14:32:30 · 19 answers · asked by Jacob 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Distraction - in this case distracting yourself. Usually when someone involved in a relationship there are things that you love to do but stop because of the time the relationship requires. Spend time doing those things that you love and it will help some but some of the ache is bound to remain for awhile.
2006-10-02 14:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by LivingDownSouth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is first keep yourself real buzy where your mind is occupied more then normal. Work extra hours or go to the gym. Make sure you spend alot of time with friends or family. Being alone is the worst and that's when your mind thinks and thinks and when you will cry,cry,and cry. Pain eases with time. Keep in your mind that "this too shall pass" the pain will subside eventually. When you start talking to other guys and you see one that u may like, that is a start in the path to recovery. You need to try to be strong. I know love and break ups are hard to get over, but that's why we have "feelings" if we didn't have them, then how could we ever express them. I really feel for ya cuz I know you are hurting, but this pain will subside and you will feel so much better. Then you will look back and think or say, eww omg, I cried over that!!! LOL...its soooo true.
2006-10-02 21:39:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cut all the memories and throw them in a trash can. I will also hang out with my friends more and vent to them about how you feel. Try not to be by yourself that much because that's when you start thinking about the past relationship. It's time to move on. So everytime when you start thinking about your ex, you quickly think of something else, such as what do I have to do tomorrow? Good luck! I hope your heart heal soon!
2006-10-02 21:35:09 · answer #3 · answered by Your Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend of mine told me once time wounds all heals. Forget the jerk and find someone better. Be careful when you do this don't get burned again, it's a bad habit to get into and some people manage to get in one bad relationship after another, be very picky it's your life and happiness that's on the line.
2006-10-02 21:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Talks To Crows 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been too. I got dumped in last night at 3:30 in the morning. It sucks I know. Talk to friends, and try not to see this person that hurt you it will only make it worse, and every time you leave the house try looking your best. This way it will look like you are a mistake and it could possibly re connect you with them, Good Luck.
2006-10-02 21:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay busy; work hard, go out with your friends, volunteer in your community or with a youth group, find a church to become active in, help out with the elderly, go back to school. What ever you do don't sit alone in front of the TV or with a romance novel feeling sorry for yourself. In time you will feel better. Best of luck!
2006-10-02 21:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say time heals all wounds and believe me if you had talked to me about two months ago me and you would have been crying in our beers, but I have said this many times that it really takes time you have to find the confidence in yourself. We get so accustom to people that we depend that they are going to be there for our every happiness and sadness. When you are with someone we feel like it is all going to end if they are never there but with independence and that is something you are going to have to achieve will come happiness. The person has not died and they have definitely not done us right so why should we care?
2006-10-02 21:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by postal_marg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It helps if you reach out to other people and help them with something they need in their life. Volunteering at a community kitchen or veterans home lets you help others and know that you will get through it, too.
2006-10-02 21:39:13 · answer #8 · answered by koco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. You need to move on and start getting involved in activities to take your mind away. Find a friend to talk to about your feelings.
2006-10-02 21:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by hiclaude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start forgetting about him and start over again with a new you hang out with your friends or find someone else to get over him but all this time that your letting go is valuable time and your missing all the fun
2006-10-02 21:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋