He broke up with me because I didn't want to have sex with him!
He didn't say it was the reason but a day ago we had an argument on this subject because I want to be a virgin untill I get maried.
I'm only 20 years old.
Was he right?
2006-10-02 14:28:35 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's a piece of crap.
It's difficult to find a decent man today. You were 100% correct in remaining a virgin until you're married. This gets rid of the multitudes of lowlifes and will require a lot more patience on your part. Ultimately, a man should really have this standard, himself.
2006-10-02 14:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO he wasn't right at all and you should be glad that he has gone if he couldn't wait til you were ready then he didn't really love you that much did he.yeah he might of already had sex and wants a sexual relationship but if he knew the way you felt from the beginin he should of just walked.men only think about sex and you do right by standing by what you belive just dont go back on it now and give in because he's trying to put pressure on you.good luck
2006-10-02 21:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by lilmissk19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a question of age or of who is right, who is wrong. It's a question of sharing the same ideas, the same morality and the same outlook. If he doesn't share your views, he is not the man for you, that's all. Plenty of couples make love, and some, like you, choose to wait. You have every right to live life the way you feel it should be lived, and you must find a man who agrees to that wholeheartedly.
Yes, many men want sex and can hardly control themselves if they are with a woman. Obviously, you need a controlled man who respects your wishes.
2006-10-02 21:46:24 · answer #3 · answered by simon2blues 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a prat! Hunny, he just isnt worth it. If he was a good man and loved you sex would not be an issue and he would respect your wishes and beleifs.
Imagine how you would feel if you gave in to him and he is your first. He doesnt sound the type of guy who would take his time and make it all about you - just in and out a couple of times, fart, roll over and go to sleep. He also doesnt seem to equal sex with commitment and it would be the worst thing for you.
You stick with what you beleive and tell him to go and pay for it if it means so little to him.
2006-10-02 20:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having virtue, these days is very cool, you are doing the right thing holding out, a lot of men will respect you even more for being a virgin, the whole idea of marring a woman and she is a virgin, is very appealing to men, Keep on doing the right thing and save your virtue for the man you truly love and want to give it to and WILL APPRECIATE it. Good for you darlin, good luck!
2006-10-02 14:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are a better person than he is. If he only wanted to be with you to have sex, then he did not respect and appreciate your values. If he doesn't respect you now, he will never respect you. You don't owe anyone any explanation. If you want to wait till you're married then go for it. Don't let anyone ever comprise your wishes. Best of luck to you. PS: If I had another opportunity, I would have waited till I was married to.
2006-10-02 14:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by strongfit13 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to make decisions about your own body. You have every right to remain a virgin until marriage. He has every right to break up with you because he wants to have sex before marriage (even though it is incredibly selfish of him).
Now, you need to find a man with self-respect and moral values who will honor your wish to remain a virgin until your wedding night.
In the end, if you want to know who is right and who is wrong I will tell you this...you are right for standing up for your beliefs and he was wrong to continue dating you when he knew you felt that way. It seems when he realized that you would not change your mind he decided to break up with you. In my opinion your boyfriend is the loser here, not you!
2006-10-02 14:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sister Cat 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course, he was not right. That guy does not deserve to be with you. I have many respect for people like you that save sex until after marriage. If he really loves you, he would wait for you. Keep on finding a guy who truly loves you. Best of luck to you!
2006-10-02 14:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Your Wife 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey u should be even crying after him(I hope u r not) . if wanted just to have sex with u that means he is not worth u. he was not right in any way. If sex for him is so important, more then being with somebody and loving somebody for u she is not for if she is good in bed or not, means thats he is just immature kid. he needs to grow up. but my dear, keep ur virginity as longest u can, that is something special. keep it for somebody who will love u forever. with somebody special.
forget about this guy...and I wish u the best.
2006-10-02 19:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by Ashlee_Hbiba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! You are definitely right, hun! Don't stay with a guy if all he wants is sex. You wait until you are ready to have sex. Don't rush into anything and don't ever let a guy make you do something intimate that you don't want to do. Good for you!
2006-10-02 14:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by Kiara 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋