I'm seeing a married man, he doesn't love his wife, she doesn't clean, cook or even support him. He loves me. His wife found out about us talking on the phone alot. We talk when he is at work, on his cell phone. She had the nerve to call me up and tell me not to call her husband, of course I denied ever talking to him. She told her husband that she didn't believe nothing was going on, because I lied to her. He told her that we work together and I help with his job. Then he suggested they go to see a therapist, because he was doing nothing wrong and she needed to stop accusing him of cheating!! Do you believe the stupid ***** believed him??
2006-10-02 14:27:09 · 30 answers · asked by cutiepie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My goodness this is a tough room tonight. Give the girl a break. Everyone has their problems. I get so very weary of the holier than thou types.
2006-10-02 14:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by anonymourati 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What I don't believe is that you are a stupid *****, rhythms with WITCH --- who screws married men and believes his one sided sorry story. I hope the two of you wind up married to each other so that down the road when you get older and find out he's cheating on you ---you'll know the pain you caused his first wife . You are a complete fool and just a "piece of meat " he knew he could manipulate! If it wasn't you he'd be screwing it'd be some BODY else. Stupid, immature girl!
2006-10-02 21:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All men who cheat say the same thing " I don't love her...I love you, she doesn't take care of me like you do, she doesn't cook, clean, take care of the kids etc. all she wants is money. " Sound familiar? You really need to take a good look at urself and ur life. Don't degrade urself any longer...go find urself a single man. Also think about this if he loved u he would have left his wife to be with u but he will NEVER leave her. He is only using u for sex, sorry but true. The wife has the upper hand here...she has his name, his kids (child support), his house and half of his earnings and material things....she will never be totally gone. Do urself a favor and drop him! Now ask urself this...who is the stupid ***** now?
2006-10-02 23:01:27 · answer #3 · answered by lorena_bui 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
first of all your wrong for being a home wrecker you look bad the wife is just being supportive of here husband but what is done in the dark comes to da light so you need to let him go and work on his family your the one that is stupid and needs to find your own man to be with why break up a happy home .. sadness get your own **** why take others and if the hubby comes to you tell him you dont want to see him any more that simple are you just dumb as f!@#$
2006-10-02 21:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~ Stormy Weather~*~ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If u think she's stupid then u must be more of an idiot for carrying on with a married man. U must be so proud of yourself. And btw, don't even think for a moment that he will leave her for u. U can call it "love" all u want but as far as he's concerned, you're just a booty call for him. So...who's really stupid here? Take a good look in the mirror.
2006-10-02 21:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to be the other woman? You can't fault the wife for believing in her husband. She is doing nothing wrong. You need to look at yourself and quit pointing the finger at the unsuspecting spouse. Why would you want to be with a lying, unfaithful married man?
2006-10-02 21:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by LadyLee 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is lying to his wife yet you believe that he's telling you the truth. Wake up girl, a liar is a liar and anyone who cheats on his wife is a master of lying. He's got to lie to her and to you to make you both feel good. Don't be stupid, get a life and a single man!
2006-10-02 21:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by delightfullyblended 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think YOU are the stupid one---for seeing a married man. And hes is stupid for cheating on his wife. If they are that unhappy, they need to separate or divorce. Do you really want to be known as 'the other woman'? If he really loved you, then he would have already left his wife. And even he does leave her for you, he has already cheated on his wife at least once, what's to stop him from cheating on you with another woman??? IF HE CHEATED ONCE, HE'LL DO IT AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-02 21:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
what i don't believe is how trifling and stupid you are, you know this man is married but yet you continue to see him and even have the nerve to call his wife stupid, ***** get a grip. if i was his wife, i would find out where you live and kick your *** then divorce him all the while saying you can have him hes my left overs
2006-10-02 21:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by dark rockchick 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Which part of that story inflated your pathetic ego the most. The part where you cheated like a WHORE with her husband, or the part where she is so desperate to save her marriage with the louse that you slept with, that she's willing to believe anything he says?
She is not stupid because she was on to him the second that he started up with you.
I have to wonder about your level of intelligence, that you would take such pride in carrying on with a married man.
2006-10-02 21:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by No More 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I can only hope that someday you will know what it is like to be her. Being a woman you should be ashamed of yourself for being with a married man. What makes you think that when he tires of your relationship he wont do the same to you? Who's to say that their relationship is that bad? Are you there to witness it? He sounds like a lying pig to me, and you are falling for it. Shame on you.
There are plenty of single men out there. Find one. Or at least let this one get a divorce and THEN pursue a relationship.
2006-10-02 21:33:48 · answer #11 · answered by kay S 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋