I cmae to his house and he was in the showerIm over at house alot i asked if he had gum and he was like yeah in the drower i went into the found condoms in his drawer is he cheating?
2006-10-02 14:25:58 · 24 answers · asked by Pretty in pink 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sorry fo the errors i was in a rush iwent into the wrong drawer and found condoms
2006-10-02 14:26:58 · update #1
He is cheating it sounds like
2006-10-02 14:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by BIB 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Probably not most teen guys have condoms even though they are not using them. they think about sex all the time and they can not help that. it is not an excuse but something that is just hardwired in. If he is not having sex with you then he is probably not having sex but guys ( being the great boy scoots that they think they are) always want to be prepared for the possibility that you might actually let him have sex with you. You can fault a guy for that. and remember just because he has them does not mean that you should have sex with him but when you are ready it is good to know that you both love yourselves enough to use protection because especially at your age you will never regret being safe when it comes to sex.
2006-10-02 21:32:03 · answer #2 · answered by 12252 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe.... or maybe it was a set up to see if you wanted to have sex with him. Was the box opened? Or were there just condoms in the drawer? You should ask him in any case.
2006-10-02 21:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by voyagernj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's probably not cheating. a lot of guys have condoms around either to seem cool to their friends, or as a "just in case." it doesn't necessarily mean he's using them. if it really bothers you, just ask him about them. it's not like you were snooping around on purpose; it was an honest mistake. good luck!
2006-10-03 01:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by Patty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe maybe not. How old are you. If your young and virgins,probably not. Sometimes guys just think its cool to have condoms. Ask him and if you don't believe him dump him. But if you do have sex with him, make him put one on. Men are good liars.
2006-10-02 21:29:06 · answer #5 · answered by pryncess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, he may have had the condoms just in case you two do have sex. He might want to be prepared to be on the safe side. Have you talked to him about it? You shouldn't be jumping to conclusions.
2006-10-02 21:32:55 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i did not understand half of your question but just becasue he has condoms does not mean that he is cheeting. But if he is at least he is being safe. They could have been before you, or mabey just given to him. I would investigate more before I sis anything. Mabey try asking him?
2006-10-02 21:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most guys have them. They don't use them, it is just in case or in anticipation. Did you count them ? I believe it is 12 to a package, bet you all 12 are there. If not look for evidence. In my experience women always leave something behind, jewelry, undergarments, stuff for their hair, socks, and hair.
2006-10-02 21:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he isint, most guys have them just incase, if you two ever decide to have sex one night he wont be unprepared. Plus some guy use them to practice during masturbation. I wouldnt worry, actually i would asdvise you trust him more that he is that sensible
2006-10-02 21:45:30 · answer #9 · answered by Dylan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because why could he be in the shower alot and with condoms dosent that sound suspicious
2006-10-02 21:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by Abi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they have been there a while from a previous girlfriend he was having sex with, maybe he bought them "just in case" or he is cheating. Anyway, talk to him!
2006-10-02 21:28:39 · answer #11 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋