my dad is a takes heroin, and he never seems to pay any attetion to me and now i just dont c him any more, does he realy love me, or is it the drugs controling him
2006-10-02 14:23:45 · 22 answers · asked by rikki n 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I'm sure he loves you, but the drugs are controlling his life. If you love him ,try to get him some help and save his life. if you have to, call the police. what he is doing ,is illegal
2006-10-02 14:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by xjoizey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor you...at the moment, even if your dad does love you deep down, he is living in a world that is dominated by heroin...my husband took heroin and became addicted to it for nearly 2 years, during that time he took little or no notice of anything or anyone, including himself, me and most importantly our daughter.. Thankfully, he has been clean for nearly 5 years but it has left our daughter with some issues and I hope that you are getting support and help from other quarters. You have to appreciate that until your dad is READY to come off herion, it will be the most important thing in his life...he does love you but his addiction is more important right now to him.. I am so very sorry hope you all get thru this.
2006-10-03 07:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by widow_purple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As many have said heroin is a very powerful addictive drug and the compulsion for a person who is dependent,using takes precedent over everything else. I guarantee you that your dad still loves you and if it was in his power he would be there for you.
Its no fun having a parent whose an addict, i can identify mate. Theres not a lot you can do about your dads using but you can get some support for yourself, try www.famanon.org.uk/
god bless
2006-10-03 13:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by truluv exists! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get him help quickly - in his case this will probably mean reporting him to the police when you know he has heroin on him.
It's the only way.
As for loving you, I'm sure he does - it's just he loves the drugs more at the moment because he's addicted - you need to help him turn this around.
Good luck.
2006-10-03 02:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by Phlodgeybodge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say your dad loves you very much but he has let drugs take over his life. It is very hard for someone to get out from under the control of drugs.
2006-10-02 21:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Biker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though it is perceived that ur parents love u cuz they made u, if they have a drug habit it is different. It's like their drug habit is more important then everything else in their life. When and how their going to get their next fix is their priority instead of what their child needs and if their okay mentally. his addiction has taken over him. If he wasnt getting high he would be thinking much different and clearer.
2006-10-02 21:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the drugs. Deep down, whats left of him still loves you, but its burried beneath very powerful, adictive, controlling drugs.
Many articles and stories, tell of surviving heroine, and thats was it is, surviving, with scars, incomplete, not the same person.
once on these drugs a person dies, if they find rehab, their a changed, different person.
Dont let him/this drag you down.
Your "dad" died, when he picked up that needle.
2006-10-02 21:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by ben b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure your father still loves you. But the power of addiction is very strong. You should tell your father that you want him to seek help for his drug problems. If that does not work you should tell someone you trust an authority figure. You could also tell a school counselor because they are there to help you. Namely your father needs help, love, and support in fighting his addiction.
2006-10-02 21:29:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure he loves you, but somthing as powerful as heroin is going to occupy him the majority of his time. Do what you can to help him and support him, but you do need to be thinking about yourself. You cant carry his addiction. Look to your own future and make plans and try not to be overwhelmed buy those kind of emotions. Its your life! Think positve and be creative! I dont want this to sound hard, but your Dad has made his choice. Think about yours.
2006-10-02 21:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by alex p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heroin is such an addictive master. has your dad taken the steps to get help? Will he admit he needs help? that will be his first step. He loves you its just that right now the drug has power over him. He needs help and I hope he is able to get it for both your sake. Stay strong.
2006-10-02 21:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋