we've been married for 4 years now. We are young so I feel really weird since we haven't been intimate for over 1 year. We don't have any kids. I totally lost interest in my husband. Any suggestions? He says he doesn't want divorce because then we have to split everything we have now.
2006-10-02 14:10:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't stay together for material things. The longer you are married will be more things to split up later. Have you tried marriage counceling, if that isn't an option or if you two have tried everything possible to save the marrage, then it may be best to leave. I say make sure you have tried in every way first, that way you will know for a fact it was for the best and there are no regrets. I wish someone had talked to me about this years ago. I left the best man a woman could hope for just because we grew apart. We've moved on (we have a daughter) but I still wonder "IF" sometimes.
2006-10-02 14:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by Liome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try a counselor. But if you really think there's no hope whatsoever, now is the best time since you don't have any kids. About the splitting, that's life. He should've realized that going into the marriage. There's no other alternative.
2006-10-02 21:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by dianee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Staying with someone because of money is, in my opinion, never a good idea. Do some soul searching. Take some time away from your husband to think on your own. What is it that will make you happy? Why waste any more time if you are unhappy? Life is short..
2006-10-02 21:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by bobbie jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having to split everything you have now is no reason to stay together. You are still young..move on. You will find someone else if thats what you want....someone else that keeps the fire rollin"
2006-10-02 21:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's the only reason he doesn't want to get a divorce is financial....Kick him to the curb its obvious that he doesn't love you....
2006-10-02 21:15:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave
2006-10-02 21:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by nextelfan25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let the door hit YOU in the *** when you leave
2006-10-02 21:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by butterfly_kisses81501 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yal , duh. it is 50% yours right? If you have already lost interest what more can I say but do what is right for you.
2006-10-02 21:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by kierstead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋