Ok, my boyfriend and I of 3 years broke up a month ago today. Yet he hasn't went a single day without calling me. I love talking to him still, but usually it is he that calls me. He doesn't want to be back together, yet he calls me everyday, wants to see me, and I allow it to be every second day. We still sleep together, go out on "dates" hang out, and do all the things we did as a couple, other than the fact that we aren't living together right now. He's not keeping me on the back burner while he "shops" around for someone else or anything. Since he came up with this vow we both made to not sleep with other people, date, flirt, and anything with the opposite sex period until after christmas. He still gets really upset if another man hits on me or talks to me period. He acts like a boyfriend without the lable. I spent the night with im on saturday, and he whispered to me while he thought I was sleeping, thinggs such as I still love you more than anything, I miss having you here all the
2006-10-02 13:55:32 · 14 answers · asked by MaNdYb 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
time, and other sweet things. I know he wants to be together, so why won't he just say it? It feels like we're back together, em I right?
2006-10-02 13:55:45 · update #1
I f*cking hate people who say I'm being a ho, or to just ditch him. No he's not seeing or f*cking other people, and I know that for a fact. He moved in with his brother, and has no friends really. The only people he associates with other than me are his family members. And when you have been with someone for 3 years, it's hard to just throw them out. F*CK
2006-10-02 14:06:40 · update #2
Sounds as though you two are still very much in love. Having a committed relationship, but not living together may be the way for you to go now. Enjoy it. Let it grow. Best of luck.
2006-10-02 14:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by lollipop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though yall made that vow not to do other stuff with other people doesn't mean that he is sticking to it because it sounds like he want to still have you and do all the things that a boyfriend do but at the same time he wants to do whatever with other females its hard to find someone that you can trust maybe if you stop having sex with him and talking to him all the time then things would be different he will probably recognize what he have and ask you to be his girl again you should take this challenge and not sleep with him or talk to him as much cut back on the talking to about once a week or if you don't want to do that then just whenever he calls keep the conversation really short
2006-10-02 14:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it walks like a duck, quack like a duck, its a duck. It sounds retarded that though ya'll are not together, ya'll are still doing things that people in relationships do. I mean all of the other activites sound ok except for the sex part. If ya'll are still having sex, then you mind as well say you and him are together. When u keep having sex with him it just makes things more complicated cuz u say ur not together but u really are. If ur happy then why dont you guys establish that he is ur man and u are his woman. Dont play the games of having ur cake and eating it too. I hope he is not on that mess.
2006-10-02 14:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a brain, sweetie??? He is using you....playing you and you are making a fool out of yourself. He is using you for sex and does not respect you at all. You are acting like a cheap ho and he is probably sleeping with other girls, too. You need some classes in self-esteem and respecting yourself. I don't see the problem with him......you are your own worst nightmare and are getting what you are asking for. When you accept garbage that is exactly what you will get......Garbage!
2006-10-02 14:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, I don't buy it. He wants his cake and eat it too. You don't know what he is doing when he isn't with you and he is doing this for a reason. Now, you need to stop being used, even if you love him. He knows you are there and he knows you always will be doesn't he? You passed that test. So, continue to be his toy or be a woman and cut him off and then see how often he comes over or calls. Sorry. Been there done that!
2006-10-02 14:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Communication is the key. Find out whats really going on cause if u just assume its a possibility that u could get hurt.
2006-10-02 13:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by bettiboo 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesnt want to admit it. If you are acting like bf/gf, just go ahead and get back together. Why go through the motions and deny that you are together, you really are together.
2006-10-02 13:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by J R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is totally having his cake and eating it too!(literally) Try ignoring his calls for like 3 days and tell him you went on a date in that amount of time. Then tell him its all or nothing, you deserve a boyfriend not a booty call. Good luck
2006-10-02 13:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by amgpsycho 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-12-26 07:56:18 · answer #9 · answered by boynton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's screwed up...ask him if he wants to date but not live together for now..if he says no then why prolong it..leave and do not contact or accept contact
2006-10-02 13:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋