Although I am willing to satisfy him sexually anytime and any way that he wants he still jerks off all of the time. this last time is while i was in the bedroom asleep. it made me feel insecure about myself. please i want honest answere from men. i want to understand why the need.
2006-10-02 13:53:18 · 32 answers · asked by blackwidow 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Just so you know I give him great oral and will give it to him whenever he wants. I want it so often that he has to turn me down sometimes that is why i got so insulted
2006-10-02 13:58:43 · update #1
He's living the best of both worlds; has you to do whatever he wants and still finds the time to beat off!
2006-10-02 14:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by ModerndayMadman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants a variety of meats (different girls) . Most men want different lays. If a man could have two or three for himself, it would be a wonderful world. Consider this, no two bodies, not even identical twins are the same, and you are only one person.
Can you give him that? If not, sooner or later he will go out on you.
I have been married for 25 years. I love my wife, but sex with her has long ago lost the excitement. I can reach my pleasure point but there is no enchantment. I think this is what you are faceing. If you cannot accept this in the future, you will be broken hearted more often than not. Very few men can stay faithful these days with so much exposure being put out. Take a look. Tight short pants, skirts, dresses and tops expose men to desires that are hard to resist. Be glad he is doing what he is doing at home and not side lining somewhere else.
2006-10-02 20:21:17 · answer #2 · answered by ageless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's prefectly normal for men to masterbate, even if they are being sexually satisfied. It sounds like you are doing a fine job of satisfying him (i.e., orally), so don't think of it of a problem. Open and honest communication is the key to a successful relationship. Talk to him, but don't be mad, think you aren't satisfying him, or that he is cheating on your sexual relationship. It may have nothing to do with you at all. A majority of men masterbate, even when they are getting enough great sex from their partner(s). Maybe if he feels comfortable and you are too, he could masterbate in front of you and not while you are asleep. If you talk to him with an open mind, you could have an even better and closer relationship all around. ;-) Good luck. I hope this helps you.
2006-10-02 14:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it comes from the stone age, mans gotta do what a mans gotta do. it doesn't make sense and he's not open to discus it so he trust you, that's the good news, the bad news is that he may just not want to bother you with the feelings of the moment. guys can go off like a rocket, girls could make the whole thing slow up til he forgot what he's doing. if he starts calling out to someone else or talking in his sleep, that behavior but if it's just popping his rocks off, don't worry about it, that can be over ten times a day to the hyperactive type A's out there, enjoy raping him if you can get away with it, it may arouse him, stalk the situation and be aggressive it well get response a lil' Axe behind the ear and candy lips wax and bat your eye lashes at him lil' smile that drives em crazy too
2006-10-02 14:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't mention if he was on with another MAN... if this is the case, then it is ABNORMAL ! God created man to have satisfaction from a woman and vice versa. Apart from that, it is abnormal... it may be becoming normal in the present societies but it is not surpring because Jesus will come soon and destroy such people IF they do not stop ! It is sad, isn't it ? Because the Bible says that in the LAST DAYS it will be like the days of Noah and SODOM/GOMORRAH. You know, the dominant SIN/EVIL in SODOM/GOMMORAH is HOMOSEXUALITY..." all the men of the city demanded the two male visitors in Lot's house for SEX !! That is ABNORMAL and God's word did prophecy thousands of years ago that these evils will MULTIPLY !! If it is so in your case, it is sad...BUT talk to him to decide whether it be you or his'. Be honest with each other...and I do not believe it is worthy of continuing the relationship UNLESS he changes ! NOT HE WANTS TO CHANGE ! However, it could be another reason and he should have the courtesy to tell you what it is. Or could it be that he doesn't know what is going on in your mind.. Talk it over.. if it is not homosexuality, then be patient because PATIENCE is a VIRTUE ! Finally, PRAY about it. There is nothing that is impossible to GOD ! May GOD BLESS you !
2006-10-02 14:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by srjione 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Here goes. It's not a need. He enjoys it, he chooses to do so, but it has nothing to do with you! If you two talk to each other, and he tells you he loves you and you satisfy him, then that should be good enough! My girlfriend and I are engaged to be married now, and I still masturbate on occasion. She knows, and she understands that it has nothing to do with me being satisfied. All that she asks of me is that I don't do it where she can see it. That's understandable, and I respect her wishes. And I'd just like to take a moment to say that masturbation is not just an alternative to sex, it is a natural part of life and even getting to know your own body, sexually, and generally, people who know themselves well sexually have heatlhier sex lives.
2006-10-02 14:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by terryandadriana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a man ,but I am married and wanted a answer to that myself so I ask my hubby what he thought ,he said if he was not getting it yes ,but if he is getting it from you when he desires then no not all the time he said once in awhile a married man will but no need to all the time when you have a wife .hope this helps you some I would feel just like you and It would make me mad as well .
2006-10-02 14:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy buy I go through the same thing... I have up front asked my husband and he said that its just easier and less tireing for him to do it... but i told him that I do most of the work( me on top) But still hasnt gave me a answer or at least one I want to hear( like the truth) my husband likes the porn also hasaying that its easier than to use his imagionation picturing me....i think its a obcession though
2006-10-02 13:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by sjeboyce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might feel that you're not satisfying him the way he wants or not often enough. You should talk to him and find out.
It's normal for many men to masturbate on a regular basis, even if they are getting sex from their partners.
2006-10-02 13:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its normal for a guy to masturbate. it doesn't mean that you cant satisfy him or anything like that but i can understand why you feel insecure, because i'd feel the same way. but my boyfriend doesn't masturbate, i, like you, will satisfy him whenever he wants and however he wants, but i masturbate sometimes. i use a vibrator. but i still get the pleasure and satisfaction whenever he does sexual stuff with me. its just sometimes, i need to get off :D
2006-10-02 14:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋