well i've been best friends wih her since like, 3rd grade &&lately we've just been fighting SO MUCH over nothing!!!! what should i do to make it better?
2006-10-02 13:53:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh... that happened to me too... but the results werent good... yah, same thing, best friends since 3rd grade, were fighting way too much over nothing... then i told her straight up that she was too mean to me all the time... but if you want your friendship to stay tight still... then just apoligise and try not to fight over stupid stuff... just say that shes right whenever she wants to pick a fight, even if shes not... thats the only way that things will get better... well, i dont know if its the only thing, but it could definitely save a relationship
2006-10-02 14:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you guys now? You have to remember things are different the older that you get. Things that were funny a year ago might not be funny now. I recently wrote off one of my life long friends and it wasn't because we fought its because we are different ppl now. It happens you grow up and you grow apart. You will find you will very rarely keep in touch with ppl that you knew when you were younger your a woman now and you have your own thoughts and ambitions and you will be with ppl that are like you and not fight you. Good luck
2006-10-02 13:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by amgpsycho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and give her time to get over whatever it is that is upsetting her. Sometimes it is best to give someone a rest and then go back later to try to talk it out. Approaching someone too early can backfire on you sometimes. If you two are truly good friends, this will pass. Good luck!
2006-10-02 13:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you have been friends for so long you just tend to get on each others nerves like sisters get on each others nerves. Its nothing you can do to make it better except to talk to her. If that doesnt work then maybe ya'll should judt not hang out with each other anymore and do your own thing.
2006-10-02 13:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to her ask her what is the real problem and try to solve the problem and if she says i don't what the problem is then tell her or ask her then why are we fighting. Maybe then she will reolize that you both are fighting over nothing. Or you could talk to her one on one and talk it over like invite her to go to the movies, mall or for a pizza and while you both are there then talk about the problem.
2006-10-02 13:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by babygurl4urthoughts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it you guys have been friends to long to fight like that. I lost a best friend over nothing and i regret it. say sorry and move on. Good luck!!!!
2006-10-02 14:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by BeauTEE_ful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely i trust the bf, you won't be able to flow hugging yet another boy at that age and not anticipate him to be jealous, in spite of the undeniable fact that the scuffling with replaced right into a sprint extreme. there is realy no longer something to do, the wear and tear is complete, your bf will continually hate your superb chum. the superb you're able to do is apoligize on your bf i assume for hugging your superb chum, thats somewhat all you're able to do, sorry.
2016-10-18 09:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always hard to have an argument with someone you care about.
How about sitting down with her and tell her your feelings. Letting her know that you treasure your friendship and wouldn't want to lose her. Perhaps agree to disagree,,that helps a lot.
2006-10-02 13:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by Harley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, give her some time . Leave her alone for awhile .She'll come through .
2006-10-02 13:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by yeahitstaylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are outgrowing each other. Just talk to her...tell her how you feel.
2006-10-02 13:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Author Al 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋