2006-10-02 13:47:07 · 40 answers · asked by lovely06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
good question
In my opinion, 1st you have to agree with your spouse that you are both in this together......
it will naturally flow from there honey :)
2006-10-02 13:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn by doing. It is a process. Take good advice from successful wives. Learn from those who are not successful. You have the right attitude already. You have a desire and willingness to be a good wife, I am sure you will be great. I hope you be sure to get a partner who loves you and wants to work as hard at being a good husband as you do as being a good wife. If so that combination and determination should take you through anything. Always work on communication. Start off by teaching him how to treat you and learning how he wants to be treated. Respect will go a long way. Take time for each other in the midst of stress and daily living. Always remember how and why you fell in love. Finally, don't let the flame of love and intimacy ever die, keep kindling it, but leave some air to breathe.
2006-10-02 13:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best Way to learn how to be a wife, is to learn your husband, his goals wants and needs and become a compliment to him based on those things. Aside from looks and physical things all any real man wants at the end of the day is to know that his woman has his back and believes in him. Find out everything about him from whats his goal in life to how he like his toast buttered and pattern yourself after that. That includes taking an inventory of yourself, and seeing what qualities, needs, and goals you have as an individual to be sure that you are with someone that you can be a good wife to. If you All's need, wants, goals, etc. are too far apart then it may be a bad decision to get together. However if you see a Man that is going in a direction that you like, and is about what you want to be about then find out what you can do to help him. There are so many ways to do this on so many levels, but that the idea, make yourself, and indispensable asset to him. Actually become one with your man.
2006-10-02 13:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by theblessedknower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no particular way to learn to be a wife. There is just a few thing you need to know:
- make sure you have a job so you can have money
- don't be a spender, be a saver
- Sometimes you can be wild and crazy, but the wife does most of the housework, so be prepared to do a lot of cleaning!!!!!
There is no way to learn to be a wife. Every wife is different. I hope you are different in a good way. Good Luck!!!!
2006-10-02 13:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by T. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide what kind of wife you want to be or what your man may want from you too. Then decide if you want to become miss Susie homemaker or whatever. If you like cooking then try recipes, It helps to discuss what you both feel your roles in the marriage should be....there is no book or perfect husband ,wife roles. You together should try doing it how you want it and go from there. Things change with children, and then maybe going out to work or when a parent gets ill. so, the role is ever changing. Just be honest, faithful and try to support your husband and ask him to do the same for you.
2006-10-02 13:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by MISS-MARY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out some books from the library or go online for tips on how to be a wonderful wife. Once you become a wife or if you are a newlywed you will learn naturally.
2006-10-02 13:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 Kings 3:1-3
1 Kings 11:1-2
Song of Solomon 8:6-7
Malachai 2:16
Matthew 22:30
2006-10-02 13:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by sebastian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you learn by doing. You love, you argue, you make up, you compromise, you live. It is just a slow but sure learning experience that only time can teach. You can read books, or seek counseling for answers. Or ask your man what he is looking for in a wife or poll some men. Follow your heart. Learn, love, and laugh!
2006-10-02 13:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by Charis 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That question can be dangerous here. Any books by Kevin Leman that have a focus on what the man should be doing too would be a great help. Sometimes women shoulder too much of the burden and get burned out.
2006-10-02 13:49:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to church. Find an old lady who's been married for more than 20 years. Talk to her, and most importantly LISTEN to her.
Being a wife OR a husband is about giving more than you take. It is selfishness that results in divorce. In EVERY instance.
2006-10-02 13:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really isnt something you learn to do...you just have to go with the flow and do what works for you and your husband...Actually sitting down and asking yourself what you think a wife is will be helpful! Good luck!
2006-10-02 13:49:13 · answer #11 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋