What can we do to help fellow human beings build self-esteem, overcome insecurities and lead a happy life?

Question

A similar question was already asked with the difference being "teen girls" instead of "human beings" in my question.

I feel instead of segmeting teen girls, it's correct to enlarge the question, since in day to day life, it's either we are suffering or our fellow human beings.

Answer 1

Lead by example.

Answer 2

I believe if we all focus on the inside feelings of others, rather than exterior appearance, that will be a giant step in the right direction. So much is about what people look like, which isn't equitable. Insecurities are based on our perceptions of what others think about ourselves. We can praise each other more often, and ridicule less. Happiness is something that should come from within. Only we have the power to make ourselves happy.

Answer 3

I like Nicoles answer, but seriously, most of what you are suggesting needs to start early on in life and our parents have the most responsibility in this. If parents would love children unconditionally, tell them how wonderful they are, hug them, give them the attention they need, etc., it would be wonderful and self-esteem would already be built and there would be few insecurities. Since this rarely happens it would help if we, as a society, would support others, care about them, be there when needed, give positive feedback, etc. Many habits and customs would need to change to have this happen. It doesn't hurt for just the few who are enlightened to take this upon themselves when they can. Every little bit helps.

Answer 4

My opinion about this is to (1) teach people how to regularly engage in positive self-talk until it is an automatic process--e.g. "I have something to contribute" (2) read motivational literature periodically to refresh ourselves (3) listen to happy music (4) exercise regularly & have a healthy diet (5) allow yourself to make mistakes..just learn at least 1 thing from them even if it is ooops, I won't do that again (6) take calculated risks instead of wallowing in indecisiveness (7) pick one thing you like about yourself & admire it daily even if it is your pinky finger (8) avoid people, places, & things in which you leave feeling worse than when you got there even if it is your mother or your job (9) build a relationship with at least 1 other person and nurture it at least weekly, and (10) do things that you enjoy regularly because you deserve it

Answer 5

The only way I see that happening is to take them out of this prejudicial world and then everything would fall into place. Life sucks but it takes Visa. Peace

Answer 6

I think this is the best question I've seen asked on this site, and I think the answer to this question, for each person, lies within that person. We can encourage self-reflection and positive attitudes, but in order to be truly happy and confident in yourself, you have to really know yourself, and everything to do that is in your head.

Answer 7

Believe in then and enrich them in the belief of them self.

Answer 8

Kill Paris Hilton.

Answer 9

well I dont know you so I dont know what kind of person you are but what I do know is that people have too want to have happier lives and they should find a selfhelp books!!!!!!!