I am 20 years old, i have been with my bf for about 1yr/6mths now. My first love and i still love him and care for
him ALOT!!!. Thing is, we had many problems and when i say many i mean MANY! He cheated on me once in our first month
.. i almost did many months after that (like 6 months or so) but stopped cuz i am always faithfull and told him everything.
then couple months ago, he left me to someone i knew in highschool and saw that he worked at wawa and i introduced them. left me for 1 month.. In that month i cried, and told him that i feel i have to move on cuz hope seems to be fading away. He said to give him time to break it off with this guy. Time was fading and i met someone. then he finally wanted me back and i took him back.. Now i have been with him since that day.
make it worse, he only had one job and held for a lil over a month and i try to push but hes way too picky about where he works...
if he helped with money things would probly be better.
any help
2006-10-02 13:38:12 · 8 answers · asked by JoeY 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Until I read your description of this guy, I always thought that "someday my prince will come" was a childish fantasy. But I see now that I was wrong. You and this guy are made for each other. You are the one person in the world who could be dumb enough to put up with him for more than one minute. And he is the one person in the world who would have enough reasons to put up with your stupidity.
Go for it, girl!!!!!
2006-10-02 13:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you really should move on with your life. I don't see the point that why you should hanging on to him after so much problem have arises between both of you.
Eben both of you can be together in future, do you foresee that you may have ,more fights rather than happy moment. I don't know how old is your bf but he is seemingly unmatured. You have to tell him not to be choosy in any jobs coz there are alot of people out there is willing to grab a job at a lower pay.
I suggest you could think over carefully if you will have a future with him, if there isn't any it is better to make a clean break at this moment. Finally I will say the final decision is yours.
2006-10-02 19:24:33 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the classic case, and because it's so classic I know you know that it's definitely time to move on. It's been time to move on for a while.
Everyone says it, but there are other fish in the sea. My first boyfriend was a jerk, I dated him from age 13 - 14 and he treated me like crap, but when he left me, I thought I'd NEVER find anyone. I did, and I was with my next boyfriend for over 5 years. He ended up cheating on me and again, I thought I'd never find someone.
But of course, I found someone... and he's the greatest man in the world.
Be patient, the right guy will come. DO NOT SETTLE FOR LESS!!! Never, ever settle. You can get the guy that doesn't cheat, holds down a good job, has goals and ambitions. You can, and you will. I guarantee it!
If I can find that perfect man, I'm sure you can. I'm riddled with physical disability and medical problems, I talk to spirits, and I am a bit eccentric, and I found a guy who loves me so much he'd do anything for me. I am sure you're gorgeous, talented, smart, etc... which means you have a 1000% of finding a guy over me!
Life is too short to be miserable in a relationship that could destroy your self esteem and sense of self worth. MOVE ON.
Jenni
www.paranormal-society.com
2006-10-02 14:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by jlo5616 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety get out while you can.I'm 29 yrs old I've been through it twice. I have learned once a cheat always a cheat. If he aint workin now he wont.He will only use you from here on out. So do yourself this favor. It will hurt for a while but it only gets better.I PROMISE!!! I finally met a guy who is everthing i could ask for.They are out there, you just have to look.
2006-10-02 14:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by mizemack@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on and find someone that has the same values as you. Without trust in the relationship, it will always be rocky. Use this relationship as a learning experience. And try not to get caught up in rebounds. If you think your worthy of something better, go find it. It will happen. Best of luck to you!!!!!
2006-10-02 13:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by ckoneonme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much has happen, move on! You will never forgive him and in some way you will try to get him back to make. Your not responsible for supporting him he's a grown man
2006-10-02 15:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by traci s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what the right thing to do is, the longer you stay the harder it is to leave.
2006-10-02 13:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by a_r_cool123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on..its just gonna get worse
2006-10-02 13:40:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kendra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋