is it true that one is a giver and one is a receiver?
2006-10-02 13:35:36 · 21 answers · asked by diane c 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sex role play is on a sliding scale for me. Depends on the environment, my mood, who I'm with and how tired I am.
Anal sex is not mandatory in the 'gay' bedroom. It is an intimate sex act, not exclusively a 'gay' sex act.
Psychologically, I like to penetrate men who are slimmer than me and I like to receive from men who are physically bigger than myself. This is not a 'gay' issue, it is an 'Ashley' issue......
2006-10-02 14:07:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
In some cases ..yes. In some cases ...No. In some relationships the partners are a giver and a receiver, some relationships enjoy the giver, receiver situation. So You are not offending anyone. all relationships are different. I personally am versitle, which means that i can be a giver or a receiver. I enjoy both
2006-10-02 19:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is not offensive. In many cases, there is a giver (or top) and a receiver (or bottom). However that is not always the case. Many gay men do not participate in anal sex at all. Some change roles. Its pretty much the same as hetero sex, meaning that for every couple its a little bit different.
2006-10-02 14:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not ALWAYS...
A lot of gay men call themselves either a "top" (giver) or a "bottom" (receiver).
Some gay men, however, call themselves "versatile", meaning that they can either give or take. I would say that it seems most gay men fall into this category.
2006-10-03 05:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by pceej 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally yes, but some times, there is a trade over. IE: one in the taker and one is the giver one week (month, year etc) and then a trade of rolls occurs. at least that's what my brother says
2006-10-02 13:38:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be both a giver and reciever, just not at the same time.
2006-10-02 13:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by Will 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer depends on whom you ask. In the bedroom department, some guys like doing some things more than others, while other guys like doing several different things. It's no different from asking about what women like; some women only like to do certain things, while other women are open to different stuff. It depends on the individual.
2006-10-02 13:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Larry Powers 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes its true. but not all. u get a top (giver), a bottom (receiver). den u get versatile (does both). an den u get diff sex positions, like frot (wich wont have penetration)
2006-10-02 23:01:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always. The majority of the men I've met are "versatile", they can give or recieve depending on the situation at the time.
2006-10-02 14:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i are not getting indignant by using being referred to as a cork soaker... Oh... wait, I basically re-examine it, it is diverse... If is offensive because of the fact even nonetheless we like it while different adult males or we our-self do it; it is an attempt to place us down for who we are. it is why we are indignant... (i'm basically kidding relating to the cork soaker).
2016-10-18 09:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋