i try to look nice every day. i fix my hair and put on make-up. i have had three kids and i know i am overweight (so is he), but i am trying to lose weight. what can i do to make him "notice" me again? help please i need views from both men and women.
2006-10-02 13:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by idabell27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he's a cop and i'm a stay at home mom. he never tells me i look nice or that i'm pretty or anything like that. we have three kids all under six and they keep me very busy. i always try to look my best even if i know i'm not going to leave the house. what else can i do to make him "notice" me?
2006-10-02 13:41:20 · update #1
Ok, keep working out, and once you feel good, get some sexy outfit, and model it for him, spice it up a little, perhaps a little striptease, something new,nice and sexy. And see his reaction, if nothing then try to talk to him and see how you can work things out.
2006-10-02 13:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by jaylee 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Lose weight. Fix him favorite meals. Leave him alone. Don't try too hard. Be there. If it hurts too bad, I'm sorry. Keep trying. But don't show it. I hope you 2 succeed.
2006-10-02 20:37:43 · answer #2 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to Gym and work out together or be more spontaneously - bring back memory what makes you happy before you got married be more happy and flirty to him ... and and let him know you are for him to make him happy ask him to wake up time is going fast.
2006-10-02 20:40:15 · answer #3 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one, since I don't know what else is going on in the relationship.
It could be a lot of things.
2006-10-02 20:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him that you feel he doesn't find you attractive. Then, when he responds, you can at least talk about it and you won't feel so alone.
2006-10-02 20:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by gen12np 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may think that, when it might not be the case. Why don't you ask him if he still finds you to be attractive.
2006-10-02 20:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r who u r sorry hun thats the way life is
2006-10-02 20:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by LIL B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men get bored very quickly when you lose your shine...I know.....
2006-10-02 20:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋