I was best friends with this girl for three years. We were so close..Then she met this guy and they started having sex and one thing led to another and me and her started fighting. Not to mention he was so mean to all of my friends and me, that i actually had to call the police on him. Now my best friend and i dont talk, and i miss her alot, but she totally feels she doesnt need friends because of him. Mind you, i'm only in high school. How can i keep my friend, even if we're not as close?
2006-10-02 12:56:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She will just have to relize that he isnt what she wants then she will try to get her old friends back and act like nothing happened.
2006-10-02 12:59:58 · answer #1 · answered by ~Katie~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can.. I lost my best friend over her controlling husband for 6 years.. One day she opened her eyes and I was a true friend never stabled her in the back.. sometimes you have to let a good friend go in the world allow them to learn and see what is missing and how their lives are being controlled.
Now we talk almost everyday. I never gave up on her I just gave her time to live her life and took a step back if you continue to rat the b/f out. you will lose every time just let her know you will be there when she needs you.
2006-10-02 13:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chicks earlier *****? if it is so then you definately're pal might have subsidized off an prolonged time in the past, it is not solid as much as now your superb friends ex and she or he would desire to understand that, if she's telling you that she wont be your pal for you desirous to be with your ex back then she wasn't rather your superb pal first of all, to boot even she suggested that he likes you extra valuable then her so i'm undecided what her difficulty is to boot being thoroughly jealous.
2016-10-15 11:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't shut her out of your life. RIght now all she see's is him but if he's not nice like you said she will come to realize this soon enough and she will need your support and advise.
From time to time send her a email just to say whats up. or a email card keep things light no pressure but let her know your still in her life.
good luck
2006-10-02 13:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep being there. Soon she is going to need someone to help pick her back up when she is down low. She will come back around when she finds out that he is a dick.
2006-10-02 13:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Yoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friendship goes both ways, if she isn't willing there isn't to much you can do. Try calling her just to let her know your here for her anytime she needs ya.
2006-10-02 13:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋