Okay i want to know alot of people this year. I want to be more outgoing. I'm tired of staying in my "comfort zone". So far my goal is to meet or talk to one person new each day. is this realistic? I'm tired of being the shy girl i was for the first two years of high school. any advise, suggestions or comments?
2006-10-02 12:55:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-10-02 12:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by stinkydoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you feel as if you are in a comfort zone then try a lot of new things along with making new friends. If you are open to new things and you like whatever you are doing, most likely you might find someone who likes it too. Then you will have gained a new friend. That's one way to seem more outgoing and not so shy. Give it a try.
2006-10-02 20:01:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm
pretty much me too.
high school is brutal.
my friend STRIVES
for popularity
i mean she'll ditch me saying i'm not "cool" enough for her.
1.ditch all "uncool" friends
then we were supposed 2 go to the mall the other day
'n i called her cell she goes. i'm at home no we're not going to the mall
i call her house her mom picks, oh she just left with some friends to the mall
2. talk about lying and deceit
+ more. oh sososo much more.
but I stay away and in my comfort zone.
i think u need to have a sense of humor, not be to shy, please keep your old friends
like i have a friend, and people ditch her simply because she's "fat"
not cool at all.
she's one of the nicest people I know.
talk to people you can understand
no offense but "popular" people can be very stupid in a sense where they do anything to claim their name. so have common sense or reasoning. basically i think if u show that ur all that. ur one of the group above
talk to people just say hi. a simple hi can turn into i love ur shoes where did u get them,
oh this store in the mall
i wanna see, how bout this sat, ok.
see and there's a start.
outgoing doesn mean crazy just being able to put yourself out there and talk to people
join clubs or sports. that helps a bunch.
and have fun
hope this helped =]]
2006-10-02 20:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by cookiemonster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are starting off good! Reach out and try to meet new people. SOmeone once told me that you never know if a person has had a bad day...what if that person did not talk to anyone, what if no one ever said anything nice to them...made me stop and think! Keep up the great idea!
2006-10-02 19:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by Yoda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's cool that you want to get out of your comfort zone, i'm in college now and still i don't talk to many people at school.... some advise doesn't give out to much personal information about your self there are people out there who would try and use it to hurt you later.....
2006-10-02 20:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by lovargirl158 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Expressful?
2006-10-02 19:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by くる. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join Clubs........when you see a cute guy......say hello, when you run into those popular girls, look them right in the eye and smile...if you compliment people on things they will notice you noticing them and think that you are nice.
2006-10-02 19:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and i think that's a great idea!!!!!!!!!! and hey if u wanna meet new people ova da net too, hi I'm esha, if u want to be friends email me at eshavonnetucker@yahoo.com!!!!
2006-10-02 20:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out to a political function
2006-10-02 19:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good go for it great!
2006-10-02 19:57:49 · answer #10 · answered by Tess c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋