my friend has been doing things that annoy me latly! and i dont know if i wanna be freinds with her any more or not because we also keep arguing over stupid things!!
but the sad thing is, is that she says im her one best friend!
and we only have 2 classes together... p.e- our first hour.
and lunch.
during p.e she doesnt really make that much of an effort to try to be with me. i think that shes more preoccupied with being friends with the popular people... but these kids arnt even as popular as she thinks they are!! im way more popular than them .. or at least thats what everyone says!!
and at lunch she dicided to start eating inside!! with out telling any body she sits with usually.it seems like she only really wants to hang out with me when she has no one else to go to!!
and on top of it most of her friends became friends with her bbecause of me!! its like she was oonly using me to be come popular!!
half of the people that shes friends with dont even really like her!
2006-10-02 12:49:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You did not mention whether you "like" her or not. make a list of reasons to hang out with her then a list of reasons not to, see which side wins
2006-10-02 12:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is simple I guess. People don't know how to be TRUE friends.. true friends stand by each other even when one can't see how they are making a fool of themselves,, She will need you later on in the school year to nurse her heart back together because she can't see she is being used. or not being a good friend she is just trying to get her name known which is fine.
When the smoke clears and she feel empty and stupid for not seeing how she is treating you.. You can hold your head up because you stood by what a true friend means.
However you'd don't have to take her crap,, you can put her in your place. and still remain true to your word on how friendship, sisterhood should be like.. just make more friends, enjoy you and if she doesn't get a clue at least you tried. then cut the strings.
2006-10-02 12:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question: Have you made an effort to save the friendship? Do you ever wonder if you actually did something to upset her. Talking behind her back is not going to help and listening to other people's crap isn't going to help. People say a lot of bad stuff you don't really have any proof whether if people like her. If you thought about this and you actually tried then don't do anything friendships fade thats life.Your friendship will end by itself.
2006-10-02 12:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor kid, I do understand the trying to make friends and everything that could make her come off as annoying, but she sounds superficial too. Personally, I'd either
a.Tell her the truth
or
b.Do the old sneaky shunning/avoiding her thing
or
c.The goody two shoes route, try finding her new friends
But she doesn't sound like she'd find new friends easily, and avoiding her would be cruel since she sounds so pathetic, so I'd try the first one. And if you don't want to go with any of those, I guess maybe you'll have to deal with her.
2006-10-02 12:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a term for people like this: psychic vampires. They drain your mental and emotional energies to satisfy some need within themselves. She may say that you are her "one best friend", but she is saying that to create a debt on your part. Since she supposedly likes you so much, you will owe it to her to be nice to her and put up with her crap. A person who guilt trips you into being their friend is no real friend. Get away from her before she drains you any further.
2006-10-02 13:03:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.... telling ur bff that u wanna "smash-up"? it rather is severe stuff! Uh, i think of u have 2 tell her the fact, altho it will harm her emotions, yet hiya, extra valuable now or by no potential. the faster, the extra valuable. ok, friendships are born, because of the fact u sense a connection in the direction of the different individual, u sense like u can have confidence him/her, there's a snug ecosystem, u can share one yet another's secrets and methods, and so on. and so on. U wanna ditch ur bff, because of the fact she's stressful? think of approximately it. Every1 has his/her solid and undesirable facets. paintings it out, ok? do not throw away ur friendship over somebody u in simple terms met for a fast time. solid success!
2016-10-15 11:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you both equally have friends to hang with. Do your thing without inviting her and she will do hers. You really don't need to tell her that you don't won't to be her friend because you can drift apart from each other once you start involving yourself with other people. You know, just hang-out with other in school and sometimes out of school without telling her so that she won't know anything. When she calls your house; you'll be out. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-02 12:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry when you grow up this will all be a distant memory. If you don't want to be friends anymore just tell her. Be straight forward and honest then stop talking to her.
2006-10-02 12:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to say anything. Just start spending more time with other people, and if she asks you to go do something, you'll probably be busy.
2006-10-02 12:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your feelings and that you don't want to be friends with her anymore because she used/uses you. That's it!
2006-10-02 12:57:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋