I am dating someone going into the army reserve and im 15 going on 16 in december he is 17 turning 18 in june but my sister was in this kind of relationship and her bf cheated on her then turned gay! so i dunno what to think he said he wouldnt and yes i trust him but does anyone ever get the feeling they'er living a family members life? im just gonna try to figure what to do he said that he doesnt want me supporting him and i respect that! just its hard to trust when so far apart. am i right?? i kinda relized i put alot of questions here! lol
2006-10-02 12:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by ~MommyLovesHerGirls~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ummm.. joining the reserves does not nescessarily mean he is going to turn gay. i'm pretty sure i'd put that worry last on my list. if you love him (which i cannot fathom at 15 y/o) stay with him, if not leave
2006-10-02 12:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by ChrisS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 22 now but when I was 17 I was in the military. Yes their is a lot of sex and cheating. I don't know your guy but from my experience he will probably cheat on you. It wont be anything serious but when your their you get lonely and will take just about antibody's company. My advice is to write him as much as possible send things in the mail that remind him of you like pics and stuff. When he goes to tech school try and visit him. Its very hard but hes only in the reserves and he will be back. Don't Stress Good Luck
2006-10-02 19:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by Hotness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every reason to be concerned, but also realize that you are really not living your sister's life. Never let your guard down. Be prepared for anything but trust and believe in your own relationship. Good luck!
2006-10-02 19:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by Simply Gorgeous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you guys are so young maybe it would be best for you to agree to cool off for the time that he's away and see how you feel after he comes back. if you still have feelings for each other then it was meant to be. a little distance will not destroy the relationship if you are meant to be together. good luck.
2006-10-02 19:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by fungirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does him going to the Army reserve affect you. I mean do you thnik he is gay? Does he act femine... What the deal is
2006-10-02 19:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by roxannafw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him then you need to trust him until you know otherwise.
2006-10-02 19:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋