My teacher is so bipolar it seems. She's always mad and takes it out on me, i guess cause i'm her teacher's assistant. Then other days, she'll be all nice and stuff. If i go and talk to somebody when the whole class is talking, she'll yell "go to your seats", and she'll keep yelling it until i go to my seat, while everyone else is out of their seats.
2006-10-02 12:38:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Teaching
Your teacher is not being mean to you. It is just that you are probably a very smart person and your teacher expects more from you than from the rest of the class. Am I right?
2006-10-02 12:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, speaking with only a small situation in mind, instead of a detail picture of your daily torture in class, I would say that she is trying to do her job. I can only guess that it takes you a couple of minutes to reach your seat. I'm not placing blame on you, because that would only make you feel more angry and hurt, especially if you are trying to solve the problem.
Try this: Ask her nicely if you can talk to her after or before class when she has the time. Sometimes, teachers are just so stressed out, they take it out on their students accidentaly. Have her tell you when a good time to meet is, and ask if you can hold it in the presence of another teacher, for your protection and hers.
Then, gather your ideas together. You don't want to become emotional or angry when you are confronting her on this issue, so do some quick brainstorming and organization to gather your ideas logically. Besides, you sound more adult and responsible for your actions.
After you sit down, just thank her for speaking with you. Teachers never get to here this. Besides, major brownie points. Tell her why you are speaking to her, and how this is affecting you as a person and a student. Then, let her speak her mind, and listen with an open mind. She may not be belittling you, but speaking her mind about something you need to work on in class. Remember, you are there to solve a problem, not to name-call or fight with her. Compromise and acknowledge how each of you think and feel about this issue, and hopefully, you can reach an agreement. However, if she refuses to cooperate, tell her thank you for talking with her, and try to transfer to another class.
I hope that the former situation works out for you, and thank you can enjoy your time in her class for the rest of the year.
2006-10-02 12:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring other witnesses with you and talk to the vice principal or principal... she might need some intervention.
2006-10-02 12:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe at sometimes she is horny around you and sometimes you dont make her feel horny when she needs it!!!
2006-10-02 14:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by layaly m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋