i'm scared?

Question

to tell my friends that i'm bi...what should i do?

Answer 1

if this person is really your friend then they may be surprised, but it wont matter cuz you are still the same person that you were before you told them. Don't be ashamed to be true to who you are and dont feel like you need to hide from anyone. Be proud.

Answer 2

If your friends are really your friends then if you tell them they won't judge you. If they do that means they are not real friends. Even if a person doesn't agree with bisexuality it isn't something they should judge. Just invite them somewhere have the time of your lives then when it's over go into a room and tell them, "Guys can you promise that you wouldn't hate me? I'm bi." From there on your on your own. They may see you diffrently but they shouldn't judge you. Don't be scared. Press on girl! (By the way I'm not bi so I don't really know how you feel. Try to be brave and see what happens, okay)

Answer 3

Do you have to tell? I'm curious why gay/bi people feel like they have to tell people. I believe that if there's ever going to be complete acceptance, people who are gay/bi are also going to have to start being "just one of the crowd". I can understand that people should tell their family, especially if they are being pushed to get married or have kids. But "not so close friends" and acquaintances and checkers at the grocery store, I don't know. By just one of the crowd, I mean, why does it have to be different? If it's normal, should it be somethig that we have to talk about. I don't think I've ever said to anyone "I'm straight" or not gay/bi, or whatever.

Answer 4

you should wait until you are ready.
If you really want to take it off your chest,
Sit them down and talk to them.
"I hope this does not affect our relationship in any way, and ive been really scared to say this, but im bi"
There's nothing wrong with thatttt.
Im pretty sure some of your friends are bi, and are hiding it.
Or, they just wont care.
If they don't like you anymore cause they know, then they were never really your friends.

Answer 5

it depends of what kind of person you are, if you're an open book and you like to tell go ahead, but always remember that not everyone is kindhearted or open minded, so be very careful who you tell it, another advice your personal life only matter to you and sometimes our hearts are full of secrets that are worth not letting them be known, what you do behind closed doors is only for you and your partner at the time. consider these:
1. are you religious?
2. are you involved in a serious relationship?
3. your social circle.
after you think rationally the scary thoughts will go away! God bless.

Answer 6

Dont tell them, they do not need to know...Find bi friends online and make them there

Answer 7

just one day bring up the subject and be like how would u guys feel if 1 of your friends said they were bi.... and if they have react good or bad just say well that person is actully me

Answer 8

Find out what your friends think about this idea. If they are against it, then don't tell them, for they may look down on and you and feel disgusted, if they are for it, then tell - that way it would be more comfortable.

Answer 9

is it necessary that you need to tell them? Or does a part of your friendship with them depend on you telling them that you are?. But if it were me I would pick the friends that I thought would be the most respectful of my secret.

Answer 10

Just come clean but not in a dramatic way (that could be uncomfortable for you) and if they're judgmental, screw them! They're not true friends!