a secret that you want to tell but scared to?
2006-10-02 12:28:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my close friends that i trust. It's hard to keep something important or painful to yourself, and everyone needs someone to confide in. Find someone you really trust, and talk to them. A true friend wont judge
2006-10-02 12:57:35 · answer #1 · answered by Fade__Out 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A good secret or a bad secret?
It depends on what the secret is. At the moment I'm suffering from an illness and I would like to tell a couple of my friends just so I could have some support. But at the same time I know that if they know they'll make a big deal out of it and treat me differently so I'm not telling them. So I think it all depends on how you think they'll react. If you're going to tell them because it will be beneficial and they'll react well then I would tell them but if you think that actually you just want to tell them because you can't keep your mouth shut and you might regret it later then I wouldn't.
At the moment my advice is if in doubt don't tell. In the words of my granny: "you never have to unsay anything you didn't say to begin with".
2006-10-02 20:08:50 · answer #2 · answered by Elodie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on three things. 1- Who the friends are. Certain friends I'll tell different things than other friends, not because I like one of them more, but just because of their personality differences. 2- What kind of secret? Like, will it hurt my friends? Will my friends not take it seriously? Will they spread it around? 3- How will it affect them? Like, is it something that could possibly offend them? If I told it to them and they told it to someone else, would it be the worst thing in the world if someone ELSE knew?
2006-10-02 19:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
word of advice: if you want a secret to stay a secret, don't tell anybody.
if you really feel like you need to get it out, there's a website called mysecret.tv where you can confess your secrets anonymously.
2006-10-02 19:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by fungirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would have to depend on the friends. Now that I am an adult I probably would because I know they love and care for me and even if they had to tell someone else it would be because they loved me. When I was a teen I don't think so.
2006-10-02 19:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the secret is. If its something your friends deserve to know and should know, then you should tell them.
2006-10-02 19:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no secrets about myself, if it is someone else's secret I do not give it away.
2006-10-02 19:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the secret and how close you are to your friends
2006-10-02 19:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by Saraita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. If they are true friends they will keep the secret. Good luck!! :) :]
2006-10-02 19:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes cuz you never know how they will react and a real friend loves you no matter what. I told my best friend that I was Bi and she still loves me and I stilled loved her whe she told me that she was gay.
2006-10-02 19:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋