2006-10-02 12:25:43 · 19 answers · asked by mike o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She probably already knows. Beng honest if you acted on it chances are if your mate found out he'd never forgive is wife but i suspect after a while you and he would be buddies again...sad but true. It's much more fun to admire from a distane... when reality kicks in there's always mess...lots n lots of mess.
2006-10-02 13:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally not a good idea - you stand to lose a friend (your mate) and it's generally not the done thing. If it is a crush, you'll get over it.
2006-10-02 12:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by bovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just looking for trouble if you keep thinking about her,and as you say "a crush" doesn't mean you are badly in love and beside you don't know if she is interested in you or not,so be logical,try to find a girl look like her,you can ,i promise!!
2006-10-02 12:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call it a temporary infatuation...this thing will jeopardise ur friendship with ur mate...its not worth it...might as well keep ur distance with ur mate's wife....i think u feel like this maybe because u havent found one for urs to keep...u will one day but dont let be this way...ur hurting 3 persons life here...
2006-10-02 13:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by ctmaryam_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you better forget this and say, or do nothing. This has disaster written all over it.
It may be lovely to mentally-masturbate that you tell her, and she falls into your arms, and you sail-off together into the sunset..... well, it ain't gonna happen, so get a reality check... NOW!!
2006-10-02 12:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Phish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not. Do you not think enough of your friend to try and ruin their marriage. Even if she feels the same she is married and am sure she would take it no further. Dont make a complete fool of yourself and do something you WILL regret.
2006-10-02 12:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Teresa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i suppose it depends on how much you love your mate...but at the end of the day its your life...you have to live with the consequences of whatever you decide not us,good luck ;0)
2006-10-02 13:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude if you are close to your mate then get over it or there a big change you guys wont be mates anymore. and plus she married!!
2006-10-02 12:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOO!
if it is just a crush u will get over it
2006-10-02 12:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by Saraita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy is always sweeter. Be fantastic!
2006-10-02 12:50:31 · answer #10 · answered by doidabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋