even if i have no clues or proof
2006-10-02 12:17:29 · 9 answers · asked by meg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You shouldn't lie no matter what. If you suspect him cheating, there is a good chance he is. Usually your gut instincts are right. You should flat out ask him. Tell him you deserve the respect to know if he is interested in someone else. Let him know what you will and or will not tolerate in a relationship. If he cannot look you in the eye when he tells you, he is lying and you will find someone who respects you more than he ever did. I wish you the best. Big hug to you.
2006-10-02 12:22:41 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No you should not. I know that this might sound a little doctor Phil but the best thing to do is be honest with him. Do you have any reason to believe he is cheating? Discuss these things with him and let him know how you feel in a calm not argumentative way. If you want to stay with him don't lie to him and don't play games. Also find out how he feel about it and if you know your man well enough then you will be able to tell if he is lying.
2006-10-02 12:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by meme 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
you know, for years my wife thought i was cheating on her and it was hurting our marriage. Funny thing is, i wasn't cheating. I love her so much that it would never be an option. But just being accused of it ripped my heart out. Be careful what you do or say
2006-10-02 12:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by wudbiser 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Don't make up anything because even if he is cheating he will probably deny it anyway so you have not gained anything but to make yourself miserable. Just remember if you can't trust him you don't need him.
2006-10-02 12:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by linda s 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No because while he'll still be a cheater you will have now officially become a liar which is no better.
2006-10-02 12:20:50 · answer #5 · answered by Dhara 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sure.. if you wanna play with fire! Careful though, the damage may be permanent if not OVER.
2006-10-02 12:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by Hanna 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
no -confront him with a story about him looking for another woman -and if he agrees you nailed him!.
2006-10-02 12:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by inquisitive 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't ... if he is doing something wrong you will find it by accident.
2006-10-02 12:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by shelly v 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Where there is NO trust, there is NO relationship
If you can't trust him, leave him!
2006-10-02 12:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by marypaz 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋