I am engaged to a man that treats me more like a roommate than a girlfriend. I moved two states away to be with him and I think he really thinks he is being a good guy to me but i need more from him. Lately he has really started to ignore me. I don't know what to do...should i move out for awhile or what? I really love him...
2006-10-02 11:58:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like you need to listen to your heart but before you do anything, talk to him and see whats really on his mind.
2006-10-02 12:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by David C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spark his interest in you. Change up something in the house or in your appearance, so long as you don't change what he really likes about you. Sit down and talk with him. If he doesn't want to talk, then the problem is not you. It could be a personal problem that he is trying to deal with on his own and not worry you about it. He just doesn't realize that he's hurting you in the process. So take things like that into consideration, before you are quick to assume. Compromise the situation and go through the problem together, not separately.
2006-10-02 12:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is been there i moved all the way to california from kentucky when i was 18 to live with my b/f was there about 6 monhths he broke up with me came home and about 2 weeks later got sick went to doctor was pregnant and my little girl is 17 now and she has never seen her father. get out now before it happens to u i love him with all my heart and sole but he did not love me like i thought he did last i heard hes in hawaii living it up. good luck sweey
2006-10-02 12:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He stopped loving her today...song lyrics you should take the time to listen to.
People don't change, they are who they are. This is him, and this is your future with him.
Sorry, but I thought you wanted the honest truth so I gave it to you. Good luck!
2006-10-02 12:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself this :how much do you like him?
is he right for you? does he really love you?
I hope it works out for you.
2006-10-02 12:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't know just tell him don't do anything until you tell him what you need or feel :)
2006-10-02 12:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Insignificant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is ignoring you he doesn't care so bail.
2006-10-02 12:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by jalapeno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
discuss this with him and see what happens
2006-10-02 12:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how u feel
2006-10-02 12:02:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋