i really want a bf i havent had one since my last relationship and i want to try again but every guy that i like only likes me as a friend and i dont know what to do i need help i just want to know how to get a bf or show a guy i like him w/ out telling him....you know.... in actions....please help REAL ANSWERS!! thanks!!....
2006-10-02 11:49:29 · 24 answers · asked by Mimi J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't just bid for one on ebay lol
join a class that interests you and you might find someone that likes the same things you do.
go out with friends and meet their friends. Don't most people find someone through their friends?
Don't stress, play hard to get...you might come off as desperate to guys tahts a no-no.
Most relationships form by growing into one by being friends first. Be open-minded because the friend that you thought was strange..might be actually kinda cool when u get 2 kno them.
2006-10-02 11:51:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think the first thing to do is make sure that you never show how desperate you feel, cuz it's a huge turn-off for most dudes I've ever encountered :p. How did you get your first bf?? Just make sure that you're out there, as in, in the public eye. Be confident, don't push things if and when you think you've *met someone*. In short, get him wanting you.
It's like a ying-yang. The guy is the yang, the girl is the ying. So when u pull back, he comes to u. Like, be polite, but not overt. Have fun, make sure guys see that u exist. you wont find anyone if u never venture out :P!!
2006-10-02 18:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by crystallized_butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be scaring them away. If you was in love in the last relationship, you may be in search for that same one. They might notice it, but you don't. You might be pushing that personality on them and relationships can't be forced or molded. If that's not the case then try being friends with them, don't give up. Sometimes a best friend can become a boyfriend. Just wait it out and then go for it when you feel that connection you've been waiting for.
2006-10-02 19:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say enjoy being single and whats the rush. You sound young, just enjoy life now you have plenty of time for guys, sometimes there a big headache anyway. I have a bf, he's a great guy and I love him to death. Trust me the right guy will come along just don't rush it, it'l happen when it happens and you don't have to try so hard to get a guy to notice you, if he likes you everything else comes naturally. Just take it slow and enjoy being young.
2006-10-02 18:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Tracey Lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smiling at a guy, touching him and saying nice things should be enough for any guy to get the message. Just be warm and freindly. You want to go just a tad bit past the freind stuff though. For example, freinds hug for 3 or 4 seconds....if you hold the hug for 6 seconds...he will wonder what is up.
2006-10-02 18:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then keep looking...
Look, just because you're looking for a rebound (That's what it sounds like to me) don't go "omg, I HAVE to have a bf NOW!!"
It's not the end of the world if you dont have guys drooling all over you. So, here's my advice to you, go out there and explore new people, see what they're like, who they hang out with, ect.
Love life! When you start being more open, people are going to naturaly attract to you, so enjoy being you at the moment!
Good luck with your search! ^_^
2006-10-02 18:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by La Reina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You being desperate for what is labels a bf is not going to help. Look at a lot of your "friends" and who knows be yourself and maybe one of those will grow into something more.
2006-10-02 18:51:34 · answer #7 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be so desperate to have a boyfriend. Just let it happen naturally. If you are "looking" for a boyfriend, chances are you are not going to find one. It's usually when you're not actively looking that it just happens. So don't stress about it. Hang out with your friends, have fun, and eventually it will happen for you.
2006-10-02 18:54:41 · answer #8 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with just telling him? There are lots of ways to show him from just feling on him to kissing him. You could also just give him some sort of present I guess. But the best way is just to tell him.
2006-10-02 18:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u mean BEST FRIEND if so then try to say hi and make a conversation with her/him and then tell her talk to u later call her and just be nice and then soon u will become then get colser to become BEST FRIENDS!!!! And if u don't mean that I have no idea!!!
2006-10-02 18:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Apple bomb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋