i mean say your dad or mom made you do things that u did not want to do can that turn u gay or bi?
2006-10-02 11:48:29 · 7 answers · asked by mz_guttolove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you have your own free will so how can someone turn you into another sexual orientation that youre not?...
2006-10-02 11:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's not possible. You are or your not by genetic predisposition.
Sexually curious is natural, yet the real "gay" is totally different. Its not a Choice and many wished it was [both gay and straight].
I have seen humans and animals that are "gay"...its not a choice and you can't be made "that way". Its like your eye color, you are born with it and you can appear to change it, yet the reality is "what it is". Acceptance is best.
Your parents may be gay and have repressed it for many years, doing the "right" thing. Many people share that dilemma, and make the active choice to "change" their live to suit their needs, yet always remember the "eye color" thing....its only an illusion.
I was socialized in a gay world for many years, dealing with diseases and wellness programs. I am totally straight with several gay relatives. Its a primal instinct...not a choice. I love people for whom they are.
If the issue of concern is dangerous sexual desires like children or pain induced then that's a serious physiological question that needs to be addressed by a professional.
Best wishes- I hope you find a wonderful adviser to help you make this transition.
2006-10-02 19:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard of some gay people that claim this. I even knew 2 girls that said this. It seemed like they were just scared of men because of what happened to them.
I think you are what you make yourself. I think you should try your best to forget what your parents did or have done and live your life for the future.
You are gay or straight depending on you, not what happens to you.
2006-10-02 18:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by AveGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you dont turn gay or turn Bi...you are born that way. You either are, or you arnt.
2006-10-02 18:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suppose they could make you change your opinion on a particular situation or sex....and if you feel that that may have caused your sexual preference you should maybe see a psychologist
2006-10-02 18:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what kind of things?
2006-10-02 18:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-10-02 23:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by jane f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋