how can i tell my boyfriend that i'm pregnant with someone elce's
child. i was raped!!!
2006-10-02 11:29:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Just tell him.
Rape is not a subject to avoid. Seek help if you think you need it.
2006-10-02 11:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by amber 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him what happened if he truly loves and cares for you then he will understand how you got pregnant, now for him wanting to keep the baby might be a whole new story because he might not want to be reminded on what happen to you and that will he might take it out emotionally on the baby and that is not good. So you need to have a talk with like when you got raped and found out you were pregnant.
2006-10-02 11:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by medevilqueen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd report it to the police, to see if they can get dna testing from the child, and if this guy has a record, then put him behind bars. Also, by showing your boyfriend the police report, he'll know that you are telling the truth, and not think that you've been sleeping around and made up a story.
2006-10-02 11:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by The New Mrs. Nguyen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth and don't lie. If he really loves you then he will understand and help you with all that you are going through.
I am so sorry about what has happened to you and I wish you the best luck on everything that you do.
Don't let the guy get away with what he did either, if you haven't told anybody, then you need to, and if you have, then good for you.
I hope everything goes ok.
2006-10-02 11:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by kate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its really not that hard to say. Sit youre boyfriend down and tell him and then you go after the man who raped you and tell youre boyfriend to **** him up!!!!
ARE YOU SURE YOU WAS RAPED OR DID YOU JUST CHEAT??
2006-10-02 11:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by tRaCi3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your boyfriend know that you were rape?If he does then just sit him down and tell him that the pregnancy was a result from the rape.
2006-10-02 11:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well rape is a horrible thing. and im sorry it happened to you.
unfortunately there is no proper way to tell your boyfriend. but u have to tell him. it would be unfair to let him believe he is the father no matter the circumstances.
i think maybe if u are scared to tell him, u should tell someone close to you like a sister or mother. they might be able to help u break it to him.
2006-10-02 11:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you reported the rape. And you should have gone to the doctor so you wouldn't get pregnant. Sorry I can't help you under the circumstances.
2006-10-02 11:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you were raped by someone elce.
2006-10-02 11:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
O my god I am sorry that happen to you are you getting support from a support group this is a time you need your mother and father and grand parent to be there for you. your boy friend should understand it's not you fault I hope he understand and make sure you get some support to help you thought this I am so sorry thing happen to you. I hope the catch this horrorble person.
2006-10-02 11:36:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋