When I'm out and about and I see a Lez couple and one is Cute if I stare they both cop an attitude towards me and can be a bit mean and rude.
I'm not insecure, more then half the time my girl doesn't even know but to me It's like a dude lookn at my girl for way to long I go no prob letting him know to chill out, cause it's irratating.
2006-10-02 11:28:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My girl isn't bi or anything, it's just some strange woman staring her down.
At one point it's like ok she digs my chic that cool, but too much Gawking and Drooling is irratating
2006-10-02 11:38:05 · update #1
It's always rude to be (rude) no matter what the situation.
I'm sure there is a mature way to handle it.
Most things go away when you ignore them or address them politely.
LOL - but be careful. If they are confident enough to stare your lady down right in front of you... they might not react well to your maturity over the situation.
Do you think your g/f is bi-curious?
That makes a big difference.
2006-10-02 11:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by rabble rouser 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are MY eyes in MY head and I'll stare at anything I want to!!!
I'm just playing. But seriously, you can't stop someone from staring, it's not against the law. The next time a lady stares at your girl, just take pride in knowing that the chick on your arm is so fine that she gets attention from the guys and the ladies. Also, if you're girl is straight, there's no way another woman could steal her. It's the guys staring at her that you have to watch out for.
2006-10-02 20:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by indrep33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women check women out period.... It is a known fact that your girl might not get all dressed up for you... Many women dress to impress other women... Not meaning they are Lesbian's.. ie Prada, coach, gucci.... these are not things that men are not into... But if a woman walks in with something of the sort, all eyes are on her by women..... I know you know what a lesbian is, if they are being disrespectful than handle it accordingly to how disrespectful they are being...
2006-10-02 19:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by mylife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way you gotta put your foot down some of these weirdos think they could fly underneath the radar treat her just like any other dude
2006-10-02 18:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to politely convey that you and your lady are together and your lady should also give the onlooker the cold shoulder so that it is apparent that she will not stray.
2006-10-02 18:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by vJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually I think it is quite rude. If your girlfriend thinks they are going overboard, let her say something. And not something rude.
2006-10-02 18:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's checking out the girl your with, then it should be fine for you to check out the girl she's with. just don't make it really creepy.
2006-10-02 18:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, gotta show it, otherwise, people think she may be in the market.
2006-10-02 18:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by Fabulous, young and broke! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away and leave it alone!
2006-10-02 18:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is rude to be rude, period. however, you can defend your girl if you see she's uncomfortable with it.
2006-10-02 18:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by kittens 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋