2 months ago, my boyfriend broke up with me. He said that we didn't get to see eachother enough and if that changed, that we should go out again. I wasn't planning on going out with him again, but a week later, he asked me back out All of my friends said he was going to do it again, but I went out with him anyway. We went out for a month and a half, and he just broke up with me again. He says that he still wants to be really good friends, but not boyfriend and girlfriend, because he can't give me anything in the relationship. I told him that I don't know if I can be friends with him because I can't trust him anymore. He also said that he still loved me. He started to cry when I told him that he had hurt me twice already and that we would never go out again. Is there anything that I can do to feel better? I also feel like calling him because we didn't get to finish our conversation, but I don't want to seem desperate. Was it right to say that we would never go out again?
2006-10-02 11:21:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dont go out with him, he is a little girly boy
2006-10-02 11:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three things to consider
(1) Are you willing to commit to a long term relationship with anyone at this time. If not then find a relationship that suits you. Nothing wrong with hanging out with several friends male and female on a Friday night.
(2) Is there another person involved? Sounds like you are in a love triangle. Who is making it that way? Answer that question and if you can't control the actions of that other person then the relationship is headed nowhere.
(3) Honey has he brought you home to meet the parents. I rest my case.
2006-10-02 18:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tust me I kno exactly what your going through. You were not wrong at all because he is stringing your emotions along like you dont have feelings so just because he started crying doesn't mean anything. He wasn't thinking about your feelings when he kept onhurting you. Though I think you should talk to him and get all the information you need about your break up that way you can get everything off your chest so you can move on happily.
2006-10-02 18:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. Find someone new who isn't going to hurt you like this. You don't deserve it. You were completely right in telling him you would never go out with him again. Keep your distance. I know that seems difficult right now, but don't let him get you down. Each day it will be easier and then you'll look back and be like "Psh, I don't care about that boy."
2006-10-02 18:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to ask, but, how old are u both? he does like u but maybe, if hes young, hes torn between being jack the lad and having a solid relationship early on. my 5 girl mates from school 2 married their 12 year old boyfriends. i think thats amazing, they are still together today(24 yrs). not without problems but still strongly together. ive asked how did u know he's the 1? they said they just knew. do u know hes the one, or, do you wonder what if, do u want a career, want to travel. could life without him be exciting?
2006-10-02 18:41:35 · answer #5 · answered by mole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has put you on standby. Standby and wait for him in case he needs an arm decoration to go out with. Don't bother finishing the conversation, it will only give him a door to weasel his way back again.
2006-10-02 18:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end the friendship.
Chelsea, if you are willing we can be friends. I don't have many friends, so here is my email if you would like someone to talk to. crazywolf_mahal@yahoo.com. I could use a new friend. Even thoguh I actually have never been with anyone, I now all about getting hurt, heartbreaks & being crushed.
2006-10-02 18:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move in with a 36 year old man that knows how to treat a woman. He has a good paying job, his own house, maturity, and experience on how to treat you right.
Stop letting this booger manipulate you, find eternal bliss with a news man.
***There is an answer in there for you, I promise!
2006-10-02 18:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did is the best. You even gave him second chance which he didn't deserved.
Stay cool, don't call him. Let him go to play with another peoples feelings. You deserved peaceful happy life.
God Bless You.
2006-10-02 18:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is like a crutch for you...don't give in , u can live a happy life with out the stress of not trusting him, trust me you will feel great when you don't give in to him and you realize that he wasn't all you thought...don't give up girl...it will make you stronger in the long run, which i know will help.
2006-10-02 18:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were right cuz now he knows he cant just stay playing around with your heart...
if you stay away from him and he still comes after you then maybe you should have THE talk...like if you want me back its gonna be this way and that's it..
2006-10-02 18:26:39 · answer #11 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋