My boyfriend (of 6 years) moved into this really nice, expensive high rise. I moved in with him after I graduated and paid money every month into his savings account to help pay for bills. Things haven't worked out too well and now I am about to get a new place on my own. He makes a REALLY nice salary but expects me to be able to afford to continue paying him money (into his savings) while I try to save for my deposit, first mo rent, furniture, etc. I think he should be more understanding instead of demanding payment from me. Am I wrong for feeling like he should "foot" the bill just for this month?
2006-10-02 11:14:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it has gotten to the point where u feel the need to leave then you should save your money, for about a month and I feel that he should understand. Unless he's so hung up on you that he feels the need to keep you under his thumb. In that case good luck getting away from him, he'll be doing everything he can to keep you there.
2006-10-02 11:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by angie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 09:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, your not wrong in my opinion he should understand. but if he wants to make a stink about it just pay the bills. let him know youll be around longer and it changes the way you feel about his compasion. He should be nicer you are a woman he has/does love(d) Is talking it out an option or are things too far gone
2006-10-02 11:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by mytwoboyz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six years? Oh, god, yes! He should cut you some slack. When I first moved out to CA, my gf at the time didn't expect me to pay anything until I got a few paychecks. We had only been together a few months...
2006-10-02 11:19:04 · answer #4 · answered by aqua_regia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sound like theres too much love there sweety, best bet is you just put your money away and move out fast.. the guys taking you for a ride.Its. nows time to start thinking about yourself, not him...Your friend from Tennessee.....ROB
2006-10-02 11:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋