Ok.. there is this kid who use to be my sons classmate last yr..
my son stayed at their house and her son at my house... well her son moved to live with his daddy so when he comes back home to visit his mom he want to come over here to my house, but my problem is that she NEVER EVER calls ahead of time she just pops up when you least expect it.. like mostly on sundays when we are chill'n her at home ( family time ) well i dont like to babysit anyways but that what she wants to drop in on any given sunday and drop off.. not only her son that is the same age is my son but the older brother want to stay too... so sunday she came by & i told her it was to late like 5:00 i told her we were done for the day we are going in. well the next weekend she pops in and brings their slip n slide on a sunday and wants to drop them off and use my water.. I thought how rude. but still i told here we were going to a wedding(we were) now she is mad. i really dont care but am I RUDE about it
2006-10-02 11:07:05 · 7 answers · asked by panda 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she is mad now cuz she saw me at the store with a nother lil' boy.. but i told her that his mom called me last week to set up a play date... plus her kids are mean to my boy and i just dont like them or her...
2006-10-02 11:08:30 · update #1
Your not an unpaid babysitting service, especially since her children are mean to your son. Rude or not, she needed to be put in her place about showing up uninvited and unannounced.
2006-10-02 11:14:06 · answer #1 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess thats what happens when you try to beat around the bush instead of just being honest in the first place. It's always hard to walk that fine line! Maybe neither of you would be mad if you would have just communicated better. Use this as a learning tool for when this situation arises in the future.
2006-10-02 11:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you were not rude. it is VERY rude to just drop off kids for no apperent reason, with you having no prior knowledge. if she had a good reason for just dropping them off, that would be different. but she is just plain rude!! she should not get mad because she didn't call ahead to see if she could drop them off and then HAVE to watch her OWN kids.
2006-10-02 11:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by Rabidactyl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't rude at all, you can't let her walk all over you!
2006-10-02 11:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is being very rude and you should tell her that you are not a babysitter
2006-10-02 11:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was rude
2006-10-02 12:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by JAMES OY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were both rude
2006-10-02 11:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋