What do women want?

Question

Why does a women epect there husband to work a 12 hr day, then come home and cook and clean?

If you dont have a job, youre a home maker, thats what you do. you clean for youre husband becouse he works his *** of for you.
Its a 2 way street 50/50.

After reviewing some of youre answers i need to add something,

!st of all you are not constantly working 12 hrs a day like youre husband does. He is at "WORK" not at home, if he is a mechanic he spent 12 hours, changeing somebodys brakes, radiator, transmission, front and rear shocks, installed 2 radios, and rotated someones tires. YOU, you cleaned up the bread crumbs from the sandwich you made, better clock that, Dont forget about cleaning the knife, clock that to, you clean the bathroom, clock 30 mins, you watch tv, clock 4 hrs, went and got a perm, Really hard work, clock that. 2 hrs. And if youre a good wife you MIGHT have cleaned up after youself all day.

Youre work load is not equivilent to his.

IF you were a full time maid you would only make about 1000-1500 a month, a mechanic makes 3000-4000. Thats becouse the jobs are completly differant, Dificulty wise.

So, ill work my 12 hour day, which i do by the way, come home, AND THEN split my wifes work 50/50? Why the **** doesent she come to work with me and split that huh? I come home with cuts, broken bones, dehydration, etc... I hire women all the time, im an equal oppertunity employer,
Ive never had a women last 3 days doing my job. Ive hired chicks that could beat the rocks ***, and its too hard for even them.

Im not sposed to do 100% of my work, Then 50% of hers. If thats how you think it should be, do you go to work with youre husband and help him do his job?

No, dont try and justify youre lazy attitude. mamabear8

Answer 1

Cant live withem, Cant shoot em.

Answer 2

You are assuming that all men work 12 hours a day at labor-intensive jobs, which all men most certainly do not.

And 50/50 applies to ALL aspects of the relationship, even helping out with housework, so don't use the term if you don't know how to define it.

Answer 3

Let's put it this way....she's working all day too...at home.
Maybe you BOTH should stop working the moment you walk in the door...and go out to eat.
But truly...you need to do some household chores too...a little bit would go a long way probably with her. As you say, "it's a two way street"...it's not 50/50 if you come home and she continues to have to do everything around the house until bedtime.

Answer 4

Any decent woman that wasn't selfish would not expect that from her husband. Marriage is 50/50, if one partner doesn't pull his or her weight then it won't work. It' s all about team work. But in answer to your question "what do women want?", most women want everything,and yesterday! And tomorrow all their demands will be changed! Good luck with that one, if you ever figure it out write a book and be a very happy wealthy man.

Answer 5

equal pay for equal qork, yes! but sweethart lets see you spread asaphalt in july august weather,lie on your under greasy, dirty vehicles,work with a pheumatic (jack) hammer, woth in a sawmill,ect ect. you will then be amazed at the different view of women,s lib you will have afterword. whati,m talkig about is called work.sitting id an air conditioned office shufflig papers is not real work.

Answer 6

Yes, but when you leave your work, youre done, and the wife stays home all day. She can't come home from home. She doesnt get to go away from HER workplace. This means that when the husband comes home, he should help around the house too.

Answer 7

Actually, it is a 100/100. I think it is wise to give one's best and 50/50 is NOT one's best, is it? ; )

I know that some women expect what you suggest, but most of those I know (who are also full-time "homemakers") do not.

Answer 8

when talking of a share in work..never underestimate..wat the other partner does...just chk on wat u did & wat u want frm her..it will cause less headache.
she perms & grooms herself for her man..or is it ok for u to hav a sloppy wife or gf...
well if the lady aint doing her share of work at home..sure its a matter of concern cause if a man works to keep family happy..it sure shows his care for his family..& if a female waiver her responsibility to keep her home happy she sure is not being fair...

try to talk it out..& reason hope things go well ur way...

psst. am one hell of a lazy bum...my husband needs to chk on me working at home..else i go all so lazzzyyy..lol
& i do wake up when am pointed at...well some women need constant motivation..cause sure staying at home all the time can get so boring that can get ones head off work..& to top it none to speak at home...till husband is back...unless one has a grown up kid...well same can happen to men at work...so all boils down to a constant renovation of thoughts & spirit..
best wishes

Answer 9

The women that do that don't want husbands, they want slaves. These demands allow them to control their husband's every waking moment.

Answer 10

All I Want Is Someone Honest.

Answer 11

I personally want a guy that doesnt lie or cheat on me and loves me and i love him, i dont want to take his money i will have my own money.