2006-10-02 10:39:39 · 13 answers · asked by caitlyn s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, if she started dating him after you told her... then she is not y our best friend.
if it just happened that way and she didn't know you had a thing for him, better get over it cuz now he is off limits to you forever. Find another crush and quick.
If he became your crush after she started dating him better get over it too or else you may end up with her ditching you as a best friend.
2006-10-02 10:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First answer these questions
did your fiend know about your crush?
did your friend tell u about them likiing your crush?
did your friend tell you that they liked each other?
If your so called best friend wasn't honest from the beginning then get a new best friend. But is they were honest then move on be happy 4 your friend & remember things happen 4 a reason.
2006-10-02 17:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she know he was? I used to have some friends at a college in Kentucky who used to frequent the same club i did. Three of these girls had a thing for me and i kinda knew it but i hate to come between friends by picking one of them. One night this girl came to the club looking for me we met and talked and as i did with the other girls exchanged numbers. Her name was Amy.
Well i decided to pick up Amy one day and hang out at the college and go clubbing that night however i found out that Amy had a secret.
Friends told me that Amy will find out what guys the circle of friends think are cute and then bed them just to rub it in their faces she got him first. She had been doing it for awhile and eventually they stopped hanging out with her but she would find out about where they went and who they liked anyway. I checked up on this and found it to be true.
Friends want you to be happy and the best friends will often put aside their own wants for your sake. If she knew you liked him she could use the "You never made a move." rule but she could have helped you snag the guy.
You need to have a talk with your friend if she did know and if she didn't let her know. If she really does like him honestly then you have an issue you should work out together if she doesn't and she's just using him to show you up?
Get evidence and let him know.
2006-10-02 18:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by sprydle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard almost everyones been through it. Just be happy for her.
The worst thing to do is to tell her! dont say you have a crush on him. It gives
your friendship a whole new vibe that you don't want to go through hun!
o and btw DONT LISTEN to Romeo up there he has know clue what he is saying
although this is under no circumstances any reason to explode on her and act like it is all her fault. No payback it nesscesary!
2006-10-02 17:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by Amiga2780 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find someone to go out with, or i would just forget about the rush since it is just a crush. b happy for ur best fren.
2006-10-02 17:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you confornt her and ask her whell axctually all 3 a yall need to have a lil meeting and talk bout that but if she know yu like him there is sompin wrong w/ dat but if she dont know and yall never went out then just let'er (let her) b
2006-10-02 17:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by Dee F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did she know before she started to date him that you liked him. because if she did she is not your best friend if she didnt know then you just have to move on.... sorry and good luck
2006-10-02 17:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by incubabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try 2 feel happy but if that dont work i no a nice lil lady named payback! make the relationship so bad the b1tchll wanna go les!!! otherwise just let him go
2006-10-02 17:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not let your best friend know your secret.find someone else. that way, you remain a good friend and didn't destroy a relationship. telling her will make her feel bad.
2006-10-02 17:45:57 · answer #9 · answered by jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else.
2006-10-02 17:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋