Is there something wrong with me? I cannot have an orgasm with someone. I can only do it alone. It is making my husband upset. I do not know what to do. Is it some thing I can do to have an orgasm with penetration?
2006-10-02 10:38:42 · 7 answers · asked by Kia E 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
sarah........you sould try doing it your self. That is what i had to do. It works.
2006-10-02 10:43:00 · update #1
i cud neva orgasm with my fella till i talked to about it....took a couple of hours and sum practice but finally got there.... talk to ur man and tell him wot u like and where u like it...relax and enjoy
2006-10-02 10:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by rebecca j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone. A high percentage of woman have the same thing. Not problem or condition, just situation.
I guess if he got you at almost the right point otherwise, then you both made love together it might get you there.
BTW, ALONE is much more intense...make sure you're just not RECOGNIZING orgasm with him.
And for goodness sake, let him know its not a fault and not something he's doing wrong, or you.
2006-10-02 17:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by baghmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your husband do to you what you do to yourself while he is penetrating you at the same time. Make it a couples experiance.
2006-10-02 17:45:14 · answer #3 · answered by momof467309 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy peeps wut is up?! ok!........well i CERTAINLEY have had orgasms before and let me tell ya they feel pretty damn good! lol but yea if u want one around your husband then buy a porn video or something + watch it together! because i have seen porn before on tv and hell yea i got orgasms! lol i wanted to screw my boyfriend but i didnt cause if i dont get an orgasm then i think sex is disgusting! + i say im never doing it but when i see that stuff yea sex isnt disgusting anymore! xoxo,
*Sara*
p.s. how can u only do it alone? w/b
2006-10-02 17:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by Sara L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never had an orgasm.
2006-10-02 17:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you do it by yourself alot then it can sometimes hurt your sex life with your spouse
try to not do it by yourself and maybe you should try different positions or you could take over sex and you can try to see then. you can also try to do for-play for a while and get yourself ready
2006-10-02 17:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband SHOULD know what to do
2006-10-02 17:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by zoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋