im really nervous about losing my virginity, so i pretty much jus swore boys off. but now im dating this really amazing guy and weve been dating for about a year and a half, and he's the person i really want to give it to. any ideas on how i can get over my free of being that close to someone?
2006-10-02 10:31:47 · 12 answers · asked by Dulceata 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it'll happen when it's right if he likes/loves you, he'll wait til you're ready. If not, then you already know you're answer. You have to find your comfort zone then you'll know you're ready.
2006-10-02 10:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by chris13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Why give such a precious gift to a boy, when some day you will have a MAN that will love you for the rest of your life.
Close your legs, stop trying to get pregnant, and work on school.
You can get a future with an education, make great money, find a great man to give yourself to after marriage. Live happily ever after.
2006-10-02 10:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure whether my answer might affect your 'True Feelings,' but In my opinion, I think you should 'W.A.I.T." Until you marry when you think that you are quite older enough like mid-20s' or something like that...
It might ruin your life if you lose 'your virginity' now, because you might get pregnant, as you are a 'Girl'......
Just do your best and Be Very, vEry nice and Friendly to 'Him'(your boyfriend), and not get in contact with him 'sexually'... Just Friendly...ㅋㅋ
OK Then I think this is enough OK
Thank you also for answering my question too..
God Bless you and Have a Lovely day~(^_^)~
God Loves you~^_^
2006-10-04 10:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so you're nervous and you should be. Just think about all the risks. With how many girls have this guy been with. Why don't wait till you get married so you can give that gift to your husband. Take care
2006-10-02 10:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still freaked out about getting that close to this boy then now is not the right time. He may be the right boy, and if he is he will wait as long as it takes. Mine waited 4 years!!! You just need to listen to your heart and your mind. They will both agree when the time is right.
2006-10-02 10:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old are you?
2nd, If you are freaking out about it then you are not ready.
"How I can get over my free of being that close to someone?"
You are not ready to be that close.
3rd, if you really wanted to give it to him, you would have come really physically close already so it wouldn't be so difficult for you.
4th, perhaps your BF or friends are pressuring you to do it?
2006-10-02 10:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by lofolulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want ot give it to him, the moment will come. Until then, don't force anything. You want this to be a fond memory, not something you're regret. So, wait. There will be a time when its just right.
2006-10-02 10:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
frist and for most don't give up your virginity to just ayone , make sure he plans on sticking around for a long time and after a year and a half you/or he should be talking comment, you saved it this long what a little more to be sure
2006-10-02 10:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if your not ready. Do not give in to something you are not ready for because you can never take it back.
2006-10-02 10:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by purplesax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have fear becuz its a very special thing and it belongs to you, and you only. Make sure you really love him before going thru with it.
2006-10-02 10:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋