I feel kissing is harmless, it's not really cheating and it's OK to kiss on a first date.
I have this friend. He is married. when he is working in my town some times we spend time together, one time he pestered me into kissing him and he is a great kisser. Now I like when I get the chance to see him, but we have never done any thing more then kissing. I think it's OK.
2006-10-02 10:18:20 · 8 answers · asked by Feather 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I hope that when I am married my relationship is secure enough/that we trust each other enough that there would be no reason to get bent out of shape over him kissing a girl he knows.
2006-10-02 10:29:41 · update #1
What will he want next?
Find a single guy with morals (if your single).
If your married or engaged stop what you are doing.
Maried people don't go on first dates.
2006-10-02 10:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by robert p 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly believe that kissing this man is so harmless then why are you asking us about it? It sounds more like you are trying to convince yourself that's it harmless when you know it's not.
Kissing is a form of intimacy, and in the case of a married person it should only happen with their spouse. If he were single, then no it wouldn't be a big deal. But he's not, he has a wife and you are very wrong for doing what your doing. In the end your only going to get hurt as he is married so you and him have no future together.
2006-10-02 17:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may think it's ok, but I'm sure his wife doesn't. How would you feel if your husband was kissing another woman. He's married and he should not be flirting, let alone kissing. You need to get your priorities straight if you think it's ok because its not!
2006-10-02 17:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would seem your trying to convince us all.
Kissing leads to sex 99% of the time.It also seems to me, that you feel nothing for his wife....as far as doing wrong to her!
What would she say?....would she say 'Oh! go ahead-kiss all you like my husband''.
Its just a matter of time...when you both may just do-the-deed.
I would not like it done to me? another woman&my husband.
Plus: look at him!! he's such a fine man!!! not....cheeting.
I bet his wife would love to know, poor woman.
2006-10-02 17:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're wrong, Missy. Kissing a married man IS wrong. However, I can't do anything about it but tell you this--kissing him is bad, bad, bad.
Good day.
2006-10-02 17:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by leavemebe_11 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wonder if you would change your mind if it was your husband kissing another woman?
2006-10-02 17:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by bea1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this case..yeah, it could be harmful...you would never convince anyone that's all thats happened....cut your loss.
2006-10-02 17:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His wife might feel differently about that.
2006-10-02 17:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋