I am 16 and I feel like guys only like girls for sex. Ever since 8th grade, boys would use me and only go out with me because I had a nice body. Boys in my class would play this game where if they grabbed your boobs you got 100 points and like if they grabbed you *** you got like 500 or some stupid stuff like that. Some of the guys got suspended for sexual harassment. I have kept up with it ever since. Well now guys don't play that game anymore, but they think about sex all the time. Sometimes I feel like I have to act slutty or whatever so that the guy will like me and that if I don't, they won't like me at all. I am a very pretty girl , and I know I should have more self respect about myself, but I still think guys wont like me unless I dress like a slut and I wear revealing clothes.
well, what I am really trying to say is why do guys do that to girls, and what can I do about the past so that guys will like me for me?
2006-10-02 09:58:17 · 14 answers · asked by kate 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Not all guys are like that. Those are jerks.
Go for the guy who punches out the guy who grabs you.
2006-10-03 06:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not all guys are the same. There are a lot of guys who are out there who want true love and affection. Still I agree with you there are lots of idiots out there. Remain the way you are and you will meet the right guy who will treat you like a person and not a sexual object. Just consider the possibilty that your true love is not a Superman but an average looking guy that your girlfriends will not like.
Actually some of your girlfriends don't want you to be with anyone so that they wouldn't feel left single. Even if they have boyfriends they would want you to stay single to have an edge on you. There are childish girls as well as some guys who are too concerned about their appearance and their 'score board'..
Best of luck
2006-10-02 10:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First start hanging around a diffrent crowd of people in school and out. Let me tell u once u graduate school, that u won't believe this stuff really bothered u. All my kids said mom u were right, i don't even talk to other kids from school, and the relationships u build in college will be the ones for life.. Life changes after H.S. and so will u.
Just stop letting the guys grab u, and start building a relationship with a guy first before he even goes to first base...Good Luck in trying to change but u can do it!!!
2006-10-02 10:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
dis keyah listen gurl u don't have 2 change who u are b/c of some guy or what part of u he likes just be you and u don't have have 2 dress like a u know what 2 make guys like u if they don't like you 4 the way u are or how u look if they aint satisfied well maybe they aint the 1 4 u then u need somebody who will accept u 4 who u are and the way u dress u konow us girls need alot of respect and deserve it u know thats all they want is sex and u know it and u can respect ur self by being who you are and not having sex at a young age next thing u know it ur pregnant well im just tryna help ya out why don't u go 2 this singer named lyfe jennings.com and check his video out if u don't know how 2 get their just write me at Babytazz011@yahoo.com and i'll send u tha video
2006-10-02 10:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's a lot of girls out there that just don't care about there self. And them be the ones that the boys choose first. And they think if they choose it from one female they might get it from the other girl. But i feel were you are coming from.
2006-10-03 04:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by Alayshia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I not in any respect develop into in that concern ... i not in any respect discovered the female that i look after now ... yet i'd say that in the journey that they began to work out the ladies personality(s) then they extra then likely might want to have felt undesirable ... yet in the journey that that they had no intrest in the first position except sex ... then i'd say that their hormones develop into in entire administration.
2016-12-04 03:40:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young guys (high school age) frankly don't know what girls are for, except for sex.
You haven't become interesting to them yet. And vice-versa.
You want guys to like you, but you don't really "like" anything about them, do you? See what I mean?
There's an old saying;
"Men fake love to get sex. Women fake sex to get love"
If you want DECENT guys, then you have to do these things:
1. Have more to offer than just your body; BE INTERESTING. Learn things to talk about, to be interested in. If you just talk about your friends all the time, then his eyes will gloss over, and he will just be back to thinking about sex.
2. DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH THEM until you're in a committed relationship.
2006-10-02 10:15:03 · answer #7 · answered by dork 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
their just descusting little perverts and that will never chang but dont stop liking guys because of what i said but one day u will find a guy that just dosent want sex but intill hten just deal with it they wount change anytime sone they will adventaily well most of them will.If u want them to like for u then dont show them yr stuff hide it cover it dont show as much then they will probaily stop looking as much but there will still be a guy that all he wants is yr body but thet probaily wount change if thats all they want just leave them alone if there like that
2006-10-02 10:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by Soccerchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to wait 15 years. Sorry but that's about all you can do.
2006-10-02 10:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At the same time could someone answer why girls only use guys to buy them things and take them places and then they just cheat on them?
To answer your question you're just going after the wrong guys. Instead of being more open minding about who you date you just tell yourself that all guys think and act the same way. There's a huge variety of guys out their, you're just not looking at the right ones. You're probably very shallow and only go after meatheads, jocks, and assholes. You could try actually going for a guy that has some other good qualities, like a brain or a sense of humor. Don't just go for the guys who are going to treat you like crap.
*btw, just for the people who are inevitably going to call me a hypocrite for my original comment, it's called sarcasm, I'm just pointing out how closed minded she's being*
2006-10-02 10:08:27 · answer #10 · answered by carlr234 2 · 4⤊ 6⤋