My boyfriend is taking heavy medication before he goes to sleep. He must take that medication for at least a week. Those pills make him soooo sleepy that he can not wake up until morning, not even if I shake him hard. Yesterday, he was sleeping, but he went to sleep before we made love. I was not getting any sleep, and then I noticed he was having a huge erection. I was so horny and he is so hot, cute, and treats me so good, that I could not contain myself and I made love to him. I am his girlfriend, so I see nothing wrong with that. Should I tell him what I did?
2006-10-02 09:51:00 · 28 answers · asked by funlovingirl88 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I feel bad about it now, I am going to tell him and then ask a new question here to let you all know what happened. :-(
2006-10-02 10:18:46 · update #1
Yes, you should probably tell him. Because he was asleep..it's kinda creepy...but i don't know what kind of relationship you have...maybe he won't care...but still....its's creepy
2006-10-02 09:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No, it wasn't rape. If you did it to him knowing that he did NOT want to have sex with you, that would be rape, it would have been against his will. But since you are a "couple" and you have consentual sex, it wouldn't be rape. But I would tell him about it. Just tell him that you were horny and his stiffy was there and ready and you took advantage of it. I doubt if he would be pissed off or anything. He would probably get horny right then and you'd have another go around.
I actually did something this with a girl I was seeing. We went out one night after she got off of work. She was very tired but wanted to go out. So we went out and had some drinks. Well, she got pretty drunk and we came home and she stripped to her panites and laid down and fell right to sleep. I was really horny so I tried to wake her. She wouldn't wake up, so I took off her panites, gave her some oral to make sure she was lubed and then slid my stiffy into her and banged the heck out of her. Well, I got my rocks off and it was OK, but not great. But I told her about it after she came home from work the next day. She didn't mind it and it got her all horny and we had to get right down to it again. So it's no big deal. Tell him, he'll like it.
2006-10-03 01:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a lucky guy to have a girl that thinks he is so cute naked that she can't keep away from him even when he is out. Technically rape is sex with out the other persons permission. However, if you have been consistent partners and he rarely tells you no then I am sure concensus was intended. As for telling him about your use of his penis while out may only make him sad that he was not aware of the great sex.
2006-10-02 10:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by Geo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, this IS considered rape! From Medicine Net:
"Date rape is a sexual assault in which the victim is psychologically pressured, drugged or sedated before the rape. Date rape is so-named because it often involves a dating couple. The male may spike a female's alcoholic beverage, making her unable to resist his advances or even unable to remember the rape. Would-be date rapists have used sleeping pills to sedate their intended victims. In addition to adding sleep-inducing medications to alcohol, date rapists also have combined them with marijuana, cocaine and other drugs. "
Doesn't often work in the direction you took, but if your boyfriend has control issues, he might not like what happened. Honesty may be the best policy -- but be prepared for the results!!
2006-10-02 09:57:58 · answer #4 · answered by Yahzmin ♥♥ 4ever 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is a good boyfriend he will think it was funny and weird all at the same time. I would say when you tell him that happened he will probably said no way that happened LOL. My husband said that would have been cool.
2006-10-02 10:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by Betty L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First why is he taking such heavy meds. that is so dangerous in its self.
second yes I would tell him I mean he may be upset that he missed it but at the same time he may be flattered and tease you about it.
It may make him reconsider taking such a heavy dose of meds in the future
2006-10-02 09:59:01 · answer #6 · answered by marie w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Legally, it's rape. But, hey, there are no witnesses!!! So, you can safely take that secret to your grave. Don't ever admit to him, because in the event you break up, he can file a rape case against you.
2006-10-02 10:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Zombie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mean to sound perverted or nothin, but i kinda always wanted that to happen to me. i think its awesome knowin that a girl wants me so bad even when im asleep. always a fantasy of mine to wakeup while my gf was, well, u know. let him know, he might like it. but u never know, lots o people have lots o different tastes when it comes to sex. what's unbeleivably disgusting to some, is the only thing that can turn others on...
2006-10-02 09:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by poopsmcghee2k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a very healty sex life. So he probably wouldn't even care. I love nothing more than waking up and hopping on my bf. He eventually wakes up and loves it!! Your bf will probably be pissed you don't do it more often.
2006-10-02 10:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him,maybe itll make him horny to know what you did to him!! and whats wrong with "making love" before you even think about going to sleep?
2006-10-02 09:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by kate 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
damn! you are naughty! I'd do the same thing to my husband lol! He wouldn't mind one bit. Theres not many guys that would mind being "raped" unless its with a broomstick of course lol.
2006-10-02 10:18:48 · answer #11 · answered by LKJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋