I am fifteen years old. I have a huge load of homework to do over the weekend. I have friends that I like to hang out with. My father is breathing down my throat about organization, time management, getting all my homework that will be due on Monday and Tuesday. Is this reasonable that my dad expects me to get everything done in one weekend. I can accept getting all my homework done and I really am working on organization and time management. But unless I stay in the house the entire weekend and sacrifice my friendships, by the way this has already started to occur so I have to work hard at keeping my friendships in tact, there is no possible way to get everything done including all the other chores I am required to do. Is this a reasonable thing to ask a fifteen year old to do?
By the way- I happily get my homework done and help out around the house. All I am saying is that I need some down time. To chill out. I can't keep up with everything if I am not.
2006-10-02 09:47:42 · 12 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I understand what u are saying i use to feel the same way. Like, your parents expectations are too high.....I think everyone needs some down time, give that to yourself but make sure u are not being disobedient..Your dad is being a little too demanding but you seem like a smart girl, u can get your homework done in no time... :> Good Luck......ps....Get that homework done!! LOL
2006-10-02 09:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You asked a good question, I have 2 children 12 and 13 and I know they have loads of homework. Your dad is not trying to be mean, he wants what is best for you in the long run.
You sound as if you are pretty reasonable, I would say hey dad my grades are good and I really want to have some weekend time to myself, Is there anyway we can work out a schedule so that I can have at lease 4 hours to myself to do something. I think he would understand you may not want to stress the friend thing too much but more of needing some chill time. I hope all works out. And keep up the good work =)
2006-10-02 16:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to admit that you are both right. It is important to get your homework done in a timely and organized manner. It is also important to do your chores. It is equally important to have some "down" time. The trick is to find a way to balance the three. You may want to start with a list and figure out how long it will take to get everything done. Then schedule your weekend to include some "down" time as well as plenty of time to get your week done. If you know ahead of time about your weekend homework and chores try starting them earlier in the week if you can. Ask your Dad to help you make a "game plan"! If he sees you are serious about getting it all done maybe he will relax a bit. We(parents) just want you all to be successful.
2006-10-02 17:00:32 · answer #3 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well such is life. And you are lucky you have a father that guides you and tells you how important it is you do your homework first. can you imagine not having that guidance? he is worried about you probably, maybe you should talk to him of a better strategy so that you can have balance?
How about telling him that friday night will be hanging out with friends time. and saturday and sunday do your homework and maybe get it over with on saturday during the day so that way you could do something else?
Yes you do need time to chill out but not more than 2 to 3 hrs! Rememember, work hard now and you'll be glad you did cause if you have to get into a reputable college, you have to have good grades.
2006-10-02 16:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes u have to sacrifize some things, I know that is kind of hard, but ur friends r supossed to do them to, maybe you can do it together and that would b a way that u can b with your friends and do the homework at the same time. And your dad doesn't have to b like that, I mean is your own obligation, u have to make desitions in your live, he's not the one that is going to fail!!
Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!! =)
2006-10-02 16:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I have a sister whos 15 and trust me all that shouldnt be expected of u
2006-10-02 17:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your GPA will effect your whole life. You will spend less time in school and more time out of it. Use this time to set a stable foundation for the rest of your life. There will always be friends to hang out with.
2006-10-02 16:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your friends are real friends you shouldnt have to worry about this. They should be able to understand you have alot of work and there should be no social reporucssions.
2006-10-02 16:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by Dylan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I go through this all the time. It's called work.
If you can't work harder, work smarter. As an example STOP WASTING YOUR TIME WHINGEING ON YAHOO AND GET ON WITH IT.
2006-10-02 16:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes
2006-10-02 18:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋