I've said something to my friends thats true but its something no one knows and ican't stop thinking about what they think. I feel like such a bad person right now and i can't take my mind of it. Please help and if you're going to be mean when you give me and answer just don't bother, i really don't need that right now.
2006-10-02 09:45:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Acutally LIMBO i'm not immature or any of those things you called me, you just don't have any feelings and this is a website were you help people with there problems and being simpathetic, so you really don't fit it. Its a non-asshole place, get lost.
2006-10-02 09:53:00 · update #1
oh my dear, it sounds like something I have done. At the time the words are coming out of your mouth it seems like the right thing to say. But afterwords you go what have I done! did I need to do that? and then your start beating yourself up for saying it. Well you can not take it back. so you need to think what can you do to make things better. one thing I know not to do is make up something else or lie, don't do it. Saying you are sorry and honestly explaining why you said what you did may help. Sit down and think about what you said, then think how it could of affected the other person/people. Then decide what needs to be said and what doesn't need to be said. Maybe nothing needs to be said and time will erase the words. Maybe only a little needs to be said. however much needs to be said please think of what to say and what not to say. good luck with this.
2006-10-02 10:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by peace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you have a decent relationship with your parents. Why don't you talk to them about it, be open and honest. Tell them how overwhelmed you feel. If you just keep ignoring it, you're gonna keep on feeling guilty and then the resentment will set it. Also, though, I admire you for helping out so much. I have 2 teen daughters; I work so hard and they see that, but still continue to help only with the bare minimum and only if I make them do it. That's sad. How can you feel like such a terrible daughter? You sound pretty amazing to me. Give yourself a break, gal. Do what you can to help your parents. They work so that you and your siblings can have things in life, including a roof over your head. Again, talk to them and tell them how you feel - don't whine - be honest. Tell them you are doing what you can to help, but that you sometimes feel a little overwhelmed. I really think it's great, the effort that you are making to help your family. You need to be proud of yourself!
2016-03-27 02:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of reaction did you get from your friends? Obviously, this is something that was bothering you and you needed to get if off your chest. Don't think your self a bad person, instead think of yourself as a human person with the need to have trust and faith in the people around you and that they love you enough to help you grow as a person through their ability to understand that we all live in glass houses.
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2006-10-02 09:56:11 · answer #3 · answered by Bean55 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if its true, then I wouldnt worry about it. If you had told us what it was, we may be able to help more. I would talk to your friends. Thats the only way youre gonna work thru it. Dont hold in your feelings, itll only make things worse. You gotta let it out. Its like holding your breath under water and not being able to come up for air. Its not good for you to hold in what youre feeling. Go talk to your friends. Work thru whatever the problem is.
I hope you get to feeling better.
2006-10-02 09:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by ~~ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you knew you were going to feel bab, or did not want anyone to know you should have never told anyone. On another note you have to stop worrying about what people might think. Plus if your so called friends judge you or think or you differently then maybe you need to go find real friends who accept you for you and not what they want you to be. Good luck and cheer up.
2006-10-02 09:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by didi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well mami do you think you did wrong in telling the truth , sometimes you have heard that honesty is the best policy but sometimes things are left unsaid just talk to your friends and try to straighten things out dont leave things as they are try and fix them k k love always a friend... intense 01
2006-10-02 09:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Intense 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you made a mistake, learn from it and be a better person. They might need some time to understand, but if they are your friends they will be there, but its your job now to win them back.
2006-10-02 10:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can`t imagine what an earth you said to upset yourself, If no one else knows what you have said and you`re not going to say anything to anyone .... then i can`t see a problem.
Is your friend upset about what you said ??? If that`s it then you must say sorry and that you don`t know what came over you.
2006-10-02 09:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay, well ur details are very vague, but i will try my hardest to give u a good answer. first of all, calm down. everything is going to be okay, this is all just drama drama drama and it will pass. if ur friends r true friends, then they will understand and will not judge u. ask them to please not repeat wut u told them, b/c it is private and u trust them to be good friends. remind urself that EVERYONE makes mistakes, and ppl understand that. life will continue, and u will be fine. good luck and have a great day :)
2006-10-02 09:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask them If you guys are still friends and if they think what you said was to harsh. If they really are your friend they'll answer truthfully.
2006-10-02 09:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by malford17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋