2006-10-02 09:35:39 · 8 answers · asked by Chika Hermosa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is called grieving. People grieve in different ways.
When I lost somebody close to me, I shut out my partner too.
2006-10-02 09:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Panther 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well its normal to want to be in a "shell" so to speak when you have lost a loved one....but eventually you will get threw it...you talk to people....your mom,dad,freind,bestfreind,your man,one trusteed family member,a support grou,anger management,a counsler,or anyone that will listen you will find after a while that this helps alot.....anouther idea is get a piecse(s) of paper and write a note of a letter to the person who died this might sound crazy but its a way for you to get things off you chest that you might wanted to have told that person an you never got a chance to....ofcourse when i say rigjht a letter i dont mean send it so please dont.....if you need some one to talk to this you can instint message me any time preferbley the instaint message but you can email me to.....k well good luck to you have a great day hope things work out for the best an bye bye =)
2006-10-02 16:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by none of your biz. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just lost my step father, and with everything I am doing for my mother I haven't been in a very romantic mood lately either. The stress is too much and makes my needs go out the door. I'm sure you will come around once some time has passed. Just try not to shut him out.
2006-10-02 16:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are grieving. This someone is obviously special to you. Time heals and you will get over it. However, let the memory of this special someone be a source of inspiration in your thoughts and deeds. This is "what" people to as the guardian angel. This specoal someone is now your guiding light from the spirit world. Be good and take care!
2006-10-02 16:40:28 · answer #4 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your grieving the death of a loved one..it's normal. But if it lasts for a really long time, you might want to see a professional.
2006-10-02 16:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by music_mustang66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that you are questioning life and what/who is important to you now that you realize that tomorrow could be your last day. Contemplating the meaning of life...it's normal....and sometimes provokes change.
2006-10-02 16:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by intrigue899 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk, and talk, and talk. Just by asking that question your taking baby steps. Keep it up.
2006-10-02 16:40:33 · answer #7 · answered by Black Beauty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means you should go talk to a therapist to find out why your feeling that way
2006-10-02 16:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by viv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋