He hit me, he lied to me, he cheated on me.
2006-10-02 09:35:06 · 13 answers · asked by Just Because 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is easy to take it personally but dont! He has major issues within himself and it would come out on anyone.You just happen to be in the line of fire.So dont say why would he hurt me! It is not a reflection of you in anyway ,shape or form.See the real person for who he is ! He is a cheat ,abuser ect...His raiseing will tell you alot ,Look at his father or family bet they had anger ,and abusesive qualitys.Dont play a victim role.See it clear .Your not right now! good luck!
2006-10-02 09:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by jessy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I know how you feel. But you didn't give enough detail for a response to your question. Was there an incident that occurred right before this happened? Did he get fired from his job? Is he doing drugs or drinking? Did you do something that made him want revenge? ( Or, did he THINK you did something?) Is there another women causing division? Everyone has some reason why they behave a certain way, if you want to know why then you need to look at the motivation behind the action. Don't look at yourself for the cause, look at him. He did it, for his reasons, and he alone has the answers why.
2006-10-02 16:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by barbie7day 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a man and thats wot most men do.
get rid off him he is not worth it no man should hit a woman the lies and the cheating is bd enough but hitting a woman is so wrong he needs help get out of there he will do it again your worth more than that
2006-10-02 16:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by rosierotweiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no man ever has the right to be abusive, either physically or verbally. no matter how much you love him, staying on in this relationship will eventually kill your love. you need to regain your dignity before it becomes serious and you are battered and lose all your self respect. contact a community service that helps abused women. and pls don't have a child with this man.
2006-10-02 18:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dumped him, The cheating and lying never ends, and if he hit you once, he'll hit you again!
2006-10-02 21:48:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes love is not enough,you shouldn't want to be with a man that hurt you,he has no respect for you.you deserve better.I know that it's sometime hard to walk away ,sometime you have no choice.talk to your husband ask him to seek help.good luck
2006-10-02 16:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why he would want to hurt you but you need to leave that relationship.
2006-10-02 16:40:36 · answer #7 · answered by scorpio78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. Ditch him a.s.a.p., regain your dignity and self-esteem and find someone else. Don't let him do this to you.
2006-10-02 16:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by searching 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him before he hurts you any more!
2006-10-02 16:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too. Men suck. Get rid of him and come to me.
2006-10-02 16:38:57 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋