...i did. after 7 years of marriage, and that's how my husband and i knew that the relationship was over. He said,"that's ok, if you don't love me anymore"... that was a horrible day, but an eye-opener to reality too.
2006-10-02 09:15:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Was he in the wrong hole maybe?
ROFL
Ok... sorry that was bad! Hahahahaha....(Still sorry though)
2006-10-03 05:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's happened to me twice. The first time I held it in, and my husband didn't notice. (He's pretty insensitive.) The second time, I was really sobbing, and I could not hide it. He STILL didn't realize that it meant something was very wrong. In fact, he told me later that he thought that we had been particularly "romantic" that night. I guess it is an eye-opener, but only if you are willing to see. I know just exactly what you mean by it being horrible. I have never felt more empty, or more alone. I was trying to work things out with him, but that's when I knew it was pointless.
2006-10-02 16:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by homebuyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy, and yes, I've become overwhelmed by emothion with my lover(s) and have cried during the lovemaking. I have also had a couple of lovers who would occasionally cry during sex, not because of any negative emotions, and I simply tried to hold them and let them know how much I loved them.
Sometimes it's a good thing.
2006-10-02 16:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but never for negative reasons. I have cried a few times because i was over whelmed with emotion. Not because of emptiness. If i don't not feel close with some one i can't bring myself to be intimate with them no matter how long i have been with them. I am so sorry that you have to feel that way. I wish you the best of luck.
2006-10-02 16:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia1228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it was real love too and honesty, what more could you ask?
You could invite him to your wedding I think and he would even be happy for you. Its the most painful thing but also good too i think. 100 or even 50 years ago people would just be stuck , no options,no hope of any. etc. Now we have onlinebootycall.com so people who are frustrated CAN get free. If they get mean enough to anyway.
2006-10-02 16:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've cried before while making love to my ex, while we were together, ofcourse. He was my first long term, real relationship and I loved him so much at the time. I just became overwhelmed with feelings.
2006-10-02 16:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I often cry... but it's because of happiness, not sadness. I get this rush of love and joy because I love my husband so much that sometimes I will cry when we make love. It is beautiful.
2006-10-02 16:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by nido_tr3s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes that happened to me too but I have only been marry 4 years.
2006-10-02 16:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes; It was so bad I cried.....the sorry dog... I knew it was over too. Took me only 6 years.
2006-10-02 16:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife cries during the love making process, but it is because she is so into it like we are one unit.
2006-10-02 16:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but they've usually been tears of joy, like when my husband and I were seperated for almost a year, then when we got back together again, that brought tears of joy.I'm sorry for you but you seem to be optomistic still. Good for you!
2006-10-02 16:21:30 · answer #11 · answered by nclaura402 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋