My bf does not smoke cigarettes, but I do..is it ok to expect him to light my cigarettes when we are on a date

Question

in a public place...I say it shows good manners and respect for me...what do other female smokers think?

Answer 1

No if he does not smoke respect him for that, making him light your cigs will ofend him and he may leave, think about not smoking around him, and you just might be able to quit

Answer 2

NO I think you are the rude one for even asking that of him. If you want to smoke then light them your self. I light my own. It's no ones place but yours to light your own cigarettes. Im sure some people think it's good manners if you would NOT smoke in public places. Do you think that is fair? So how can it be fair/right/ good manners for you to have him light your cigarettes when he don't smoke?
You need to understand what "good manners" are all about. Cause having a non-smoker light your cigarettes haves nothing to do with "good manners" in fact it shows that you LACK good manners your self.

Answer 3

I continually stated I not in any respect would, yet I were given a touch below the effect of alcohol one evening and it did not look like a foul theory. properly, it became because I were given addicted at present day! i like cigarettes a lot now, yet they don't take care of me so properly. I only ruined a date with an outstanding guy because i wanted a smoke. He got here across it unattractive to work out and smell me smoking. His smile went away after I took out my cigarettes.

Answer 4

I am a male and a smoker but I want to answer this anyway.
Light your own cigarettes. Your bf does not understand that you are addicted to nicotine and may not notice every time you go to fire up and you could go into withdrawals waiting for a light.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

I guess that would depend on him. Usually the guys I have dated smoke and I don't... but every once and a while they would ask me to light their cig for them. I cant stand smoke though, the smell and taste is disgusting. So really if he doesn't mind then I guess it would be ok.

Answer 7

Of course. Lighting a cigarette for a woman is all part of treating her like a lady.

Answer 8

no way!! if you haven't been dating him long then do not make him do anything. most guys are turned off by smoking anyway, so it would be more polite of you to ask if he cares if you smoke on the date. at least that way you can get an idea about how comfortable he is with it.

Answer 9

i am a smoker and my husband is not and i would never even think of asking him to light my cig for me. i dont think manners have anything to do with it on his part.

Answer 10

Wow, you're a weird one. Light them yourself. You shouldn't expect him to do it for you. And good manners? Hm, no that would be opening a door or pulling out your chair.